expecting a bit of help from my dh?

[bellydancer6]

Feeling overwhelmed by my workload.have six ds from 17 down to 7months.breastfeeding all through the night still so very tired.dh been to work till 6 granted but i been on go since 7.15 too.its the tea time ,bedtime thats hard and instead of coming home and getting stuck in,he gone out.

Blimey - not surprised you feel overwhelmed!

I only have one Ds 14mths and I hate this time of day - tea, bath, bed.

UANBU - men!

bellydancer, lock the door - dont let him back in, at least until he begs!!! Is that a regular occurance or a one off?

thanks for replies!sorry i not continue on thread last night but was busy with baby!he works shifts.he goes out to different activities four times a week.on saturdays if not working,has booked kids in to activities all day and then may have something himself in evening.recently he going out sundays for few hours and has now booked weekend away the week after sports on both sat and sun previous week.tried talking to him but just says i moaning and why is it a problem.he does his bit.i think he means occasional completely uninterrupted take as long as you like cooking.feeling fed up today...

Thats awful. I only have one ds who is 10 months old. When dh comes home He will take over for an hour or so just so I can have a bath or come on here or just to sit on the sofa and watch tv.
I feel so sorry for you

Six sons.....I think your DH has given you enough of his type of help lol

Children from 17 yrs to 7 months! Not my idea of fun - I'd be off out the door too I'm afraid! (Sorry thats not very helpful is it)

No YANBU, he is. Unfortunately there are men like him all over the place

had big row this morning as he came home from work and place was a mess and kids not dressed.this was because i had to feed and change baby and asked 12 year old to sit whilst i washed and dressed!he shouted at older kids and told them was their fault we row and to help more!he then went out to take younger kids swimming lessons telling them mum said it has to be last one!i took older kids shopping.he now at another sport whilst i got baby crying upstairs and younger kids needing tea and bed downstairs.older kids out at work.