My husband has 5 kids, A few weeks ago I offered to pay for all our (we have 2 together) kids Christmas presents and one of our child’s birthday this December. I said you just pay for the other 3 (from previous relationship) as he was worried about money. Just as a side note he earns about 10k more than me, although we split everything equally apart from CSA payment which he just pays.
Kindly, his parents have given him £1000 to help him out over Christmas. I made an assumption that he’d give me the £250 out of the £1000, that I’ve spent on our kids to help me out. He doesn’t think he should have to as I said I’d pay for them. (This was Before he got the money). He wants to keep it all for himself to pay for his car service and his other kids presents. I’m really sad and angry that he won’t give me any money towards the money I’ve spent and he was angry at me for making the assumption that he is would help me out. I’m I being unreasonable?