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To think everybody is struggling financially at the minute

117 replies

Haguey90 · 28/11/2022 17:17

I’ve noticed a big difference, DH and I earn ok but our money isn’t lasting, is anybody else feeling like this?

OP posts:
stuckandfedup · 28/11/2022 17:47

No, not everyone is struggling. Some will barely be noticing price rises. Many, like us, will be noticing that our money goes less far and being a bit more careful about some spending, cutting back in some areas, but couldn't honestly be described as 'struggling'.

Others really will be making genuinely difficult choices and having a very hard time, when perhaps previously they were just about managing.

But it's daft to suggest that 'everyone is struggling'. We are a very divided country, financially-speaking.

MarshaBradyo · 28/11/2022 17:47

Not everyone

NotToBeShaked · 28/11/2022 17:48

I think a lot of people are feeling the pinch but it's a small % that are really struggling.

Jmaho · 28/11/2022 17:50

We're not rich by any means but not struggling
Money isn't going as far. One of our biggest expenses is food and that's obviously gone up massively
We're only not struggling due to time of life though. No childcare costs anymore, incomes have gone up. Our disposable income is just less now as things have gone up
A few years ago we hardly had any surplus so we'd have been struggling then

slowquickstep · 28/11/2022 18:09

No, were are not struggling. Obviously not happy with the price of electricity, fuel or food but we can pay for it. We are careful with our money and saved bloody hard when we could so we have a large safety net.

Happyhappyday · 28/11/2022 18:10

We are not struggling. We both work full time and house hold income of £250k. We built our life around 1 income. We are cutting back a little, mainly on food and travel, to increase our emergency fund to 1 year of expenses because I am paranoid about 1 of us losing a job. Lots of people are struggling, DH and I are both from families where every household is high earning and financially very conservative (and able to live comfortably because we are high earners) so have large cushions to absorb any shocks.

ErinAndTonic · 28/11/2022 18:27

Worse off with less disposable income - yes, struggling - no

I've had a substantial pay rise recently though. However I think the bulk of it will be absorbed by cost of living increases, tax, and a bump up in other things I have to pay back monthly like student loans etc

xalo · 28/11/2022 19:27

No, not struggling but cutting back on luxuries and non essentials.

DenholmElliot11 · 28/11/2022 19:46

I have to say, I'm not imagining things but the shops seem even more crowded and busy than they have ever been. Make of that what you will.

RedRosie · 28/11/2022 20:02

Our household is ok. Worse off definitely, but we'll be fine.

But even with the maximum govt help my very elderly parents are struggling with price increases, and are terrified of heating bills to come. And they won't let me help. So I'm definitely struggling with that.

Cheesuswithallama · 28/11/2022 20:05

I am always bit cautious about threads like this with obvious unreasonableness with potential for bun fights or upset started by a new or nc poster as their only thread...

BMW6 · 28/11/2022 20:06

DH and I are early 60's, neither working as we have enough income from occupational pensions. Mortgage paid off.

Not living extravagantly but have enough to eat well and have heating on all day at 19. Used to save 100 - 400pm but expect to just break even during winter months as energy costs will rocket.

Joyfuljolly · 28/11/2022 20:07

Hibernationsetting · 28/11/2022 17:36

There’s a whole section dedicated to the cost of living, but no. It’s just you. 🙄

I don’t understand this comment, I assume you’re trying for sarcasm and some logic got lost along the way. The op asked if she was unreasonable to think everyone was struggling. And pf course everyone isn’t struggling. Earnings spread as a population are a bell curve. Everyone isn’t on the same low wage,with high comparable outgoings.

So as much as many are struggling, those on low incomes, those on whatever income but who have over stretched themselves with mortgages or debts, those whose outgoings leave little disposable income, many many people. But in the flip side there are many many others who have the disposable income to cover the col increase, either just or to an extent they barely notice it.

sl the factual answer is of course everyone isn’t struggling. Everyone is impacted yes, but that doesn’t mean struggling. So there is nothing to roll your eyes about and no one said it was just the op.

Cheesuswithallama · 28/11/2022 20:10

The eyroll was surely at not posting in Cost of Living topic forum on mumsnet.
It's a helpful place actually. But one would have to be interested in help or discussion for it to be of benefit to them.

Abraxan · 28/11/2022 20:11

Most people will have seen an impact.
However there are also a lot of people were the impact is much less and they are not struggling.
For others, the impact is much bigger and they are struggling hugely.
A lot in the middle as well, people starting to make financial decisions where they didn't really need to consider it so much previously.

bonzaitree · 28/11/2022 20:31

Honestly we aren’t struggling and I think lots of other people will be the same.

sorry if this pisses people off but it’s true.

maddiemookins16mum · 28/11/2022 20:50

Struggling? Nope, nowhere near. Noticing a difference in our bills, yes.

MrsJBaptiste · 28/11/2022 20:59

For us, the weekly food shop is costing £20 more per week but other than that, life has carried in as normal. My friends and I talk about the CoL crisis but it hasn't affected us as yet.

TinaTeaspoons · 28/11/2022 21:16

Not my neighbours who are on six figures and loving life. Get to work from home as well.

Imgoingslightlymadd · 28/11/2022 21:20

We are struggling but we have been since dh lost his job and was diagnosed with liver disease in March. 2 of us (adults, luckily no kids) on about £800 per month is dire. His benefits and my part time wage. Lots of beans on toast and sitting with 28 layers on 😂 our rent is covered so grateful for that. But yeah it's definitely a struggle. Character building 💪😂

Passportpondery · 28/11/2022 21:20

We are not “struggling”. Yes we are affected, we’ve had to cut back and reassess some priorities, but I certainly wouldn’t say we were struggling.

I can’t compare our situation to some people who are choosing between heating and food this winter. It’s an awful situation for some people .

Oblomov22 · 28/11/2022 21:34

No one I know is struggling yet.

SirMingeALot · 28/11/2022 21:53

I'm not struggling, but I am finding everything costs more so there is less disposable income. That's no great shakes for me but it's very bad for the people whose jobs rely on that sort of spending.

Mezmer · 28/11/2022 21:56

Nope. I’ve never been richer. I have scraped and worked like a pauper all my life and lived hand to mouth. This year was the first year I have had any savings at all. I got a new job so earn the same as DH now. We have a four year fixed mortgage at 1.2% and fixed our energy in June for two years.

I don’t feel at all bad or guilty because for me it has been a cost of living crisis all my life and my circumstances have simply changed at the age of 50.

we paid 5.75% mortgage at one point when house prices were sky high and I had two little kids. I had no childcare costs covered by the government while I worked and maternity leave was 5 months. My DH’s company did not give him any leave and he had a day off from working outside digging holes on roads.

There was a savage recession when I left uni. I had to move four hours away from home to sleep on a friends floor for two weeks in order to get a job in an office.

i have always worn thermal underwear rather than switch on the heating.

we didn’t HAVE heating or double glazing until I was in my late 20s.

It needs saying that there have been hard times all throughout history and to think that this is an exception is a complete fable.

we have all got used to cheap money in the last few years. I feel very bad for people who have just come out of fixed mortgages but contrary to what the media will have everyone believe most people at some point face recessions and hardship.

I was self employed during covid and never asked for a penny in furlough.

What has changed is the attitude and a new culture. I’m not saying if that is right or wrong what I will say though is that other generations have struggled and had to adapt and didn’t have social media to turn to in order to voice their complaints.

ivfbabymomma1 · 28/11/2022 22:02

We are worse off but not struggling thankfully

Shops are £20 a week more

Other bills have stayed the same for now 🤞🏽

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