To wonder when you looked/felt your best

[BaHamaa]

I think I looked great in my 20’s, however i am 32 now and never felt so comfortable, I don’t seem to give a crap what anybody thinks. I was so insecure in my 20’s which is such a bloody shame.

When I was pregnant and just after DT were born (one pregnancy at 27yo). I was really lucky that nothing really changed other than my bump and I “snapped back” really quickly…or so I though. The things I thought would go in time like my tummy pouch, saggy boobs and 4lbs won’t shift.

I'm in my 40s now and look sort of ok. I looked my best when I was around 30-32. I look back at photos of those years and I'm honestly staggered by how good I looked. My 20s were not my best years, whatever "they" may say about youth.

Late 20s to early 30s. Had my first DC at 35 and it's all gone downhill since.

58-now (60, retired, work part time). Had moments when I was thinner, fitter, felt good when was younger but always struggled with self confidence. Got past the menopause, got fit again, and despite saggy skin around my eyes I feel like I can take on the world. I have life experience and I have no fucks to give what people think of me 😊