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To think the Princess of Wales is wrong and the years that need more support and funding are the teenage years with the 18-25 year group being the most needy.

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Alice1land35543 · 26/11/2022 08:12

Having access to private mental health support , education and all that being rich entails alongside having not experienced the teenage years I don’t think the P of W is fully informed or right.

Teens are facing huge pressures( more than ever before) and mental health struggles are soaring. Services are beyond stretched and what little there is is broken and unable to cope. Schools are struggling, paediatric wards bursting, families are on their knees and continuously battling. When unwell teens reach 18 there is nothing but a cliff edge into zero support and they are abandoned. The brain doesn’t finish developing until 25.

“If we are going to tackle the sorts of complex challenges we face today like homelessness, violence and addiction, which are so often underpinned by poverty and poor mental health, we have to fully appreciate those most preventative years and do everything we can to nurture our children and those who care for them”.

No Kate we need to focus on the years children are struggling the most, fund mental health treatment and support properly and ensure that provision for 18-25 year olds is mandatory in every trust. Early years get plenty already. Teens and parents of teens get next to nothing so why the focus on early years yet again? Maybe the teenage years and 18/25 group aren’t so media appealing.

As an aside rich celebrities jumping on the mental health bandwagon saying let’s talk about mental health and just reach out is not the answer. Those struggling with mental health can’t reach out because there is nothing to reach out to and it’s not that simplistic. That however is a whole other thread.

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Naunet · 27/03/2023 08:56

TeenDivided · 27/03/2023 08:52

But They are told if they don't do well at GCSEs/A level / University their life won't amount to anything. In 'the old days' yes you left school at 15/16 to enter work, but you could do that. Dad would find you a job at his factory or whatever.

At school there are no longer good options for less academic kids, they've all but been removed. e.g. You can't do a cooking BTEC, it has to be a Food Tech GCSE with a mound of theory to learn.

Absolute rubbish, they have more opportunities now, not less. I didn’t do well at school, I’m dyslexic but didn’t get the help kids get now, so I fucking grafted and have worked hard to build my own career. Things don’t get handed to you on a plate, you have to work for it and there is nothing wrong with that.

Naunet · 27/03/2023 08:57

Naunet · 27/03/2023 08:56

Absolute rubbish, they have more opportunities now, not less. I didn’t do well at school, I’m dyslexic but didn’t get the help kids get now, so I fucking grafted and have worked hard to build my own career. Things don’t get handed to you on a plate, you have to work for it and there is nothing wrong with that.

And I’m not saying they have it easy by the way, but more pressure than ever before? Absolutely fucking not.

michaelmacrae · 27/03/2023 09:53

@Naunet they have different pressures. Your/our generation didn't have to deal with social media pressures, lack of housing, super high rents (you can't barely rent a 1 bed these days), lack of jobs, unachievable mortgages.

It's easy to say "I grafted" but previous gens had a job for life, and houses were affordable. I bought a little flat when I was 29, and I was only on 20 grand!! You CANNOT do that today.

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