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RIP Fatoumatta and her beautiful children

52 replies

ItsBritneyBitch45 · 25/11/2022 19:12

I’m sure many people have heard of this story already but for those who haven’t, a man has been charged with the murder of a woman (Fatoumatta) and her two daughters (Fatimah & Naeemah). Those poor kids were only aged 1 & 3. I really don’t know what sort of world we’re living in. Here’s a link for anyone who wants to read the story,

amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/nov/24/man-charged-with-of-woman-and-her-two-daughters-in-nottingham-flat-fire

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catandcoffee · 25/11/2022 21:12

I can't believe some people are so fucking evil.
That poor woman and her babies....heart breaking. The poor husband...I can't look at their pictures it's too sad. 💔

SolviturAmbulando · 25/11/2022 21:27

alexdgr8 · 25/11/2022 19:19

OP, your post is prejudicial.
this is why we must not discuss current cases.

I can reassure you that you are, in fact, incorrect.

May this beautiful mother and children Rest In Peace, and may justice be done not least to bring some comfort to their loving family and friends.

ItsBritneyBitch45 · 25/11/2022 21:52

clairelip · 25/11/2022 20:46

A terrible thing for the family to have to cope with, her poor husband. I hope that fatoumatta wasn't aware of the death of her beautiful children and that they were killed by smoke rather than the flames. Rip to three beautiful souls

I was thinking the exactly same thing. I really hope she wasn’t aware of what happened to her children as I can’t imagine anything worse then feeling unable to help your kids in a life or death situation. I can’t stop thinking about her husband and how he has to live with this for the rest of his life. It’s actually heartbreaking

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Ilovealido · 25/11/2022 21:57

I was so saddened to read this too. Just heartbreaking. I must admit when I first read the report I wondered if it was a domestic incident but then I saw the father was away at the time. I can’t imagine the motive for doing something like this. Horrendous.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 25/11/2022 21:58

alexdgr8 · 25/11/2022 19:19

OP, your post is prejudicial.
this is why we must not discuss current cases.

Just shush, will you. If you don't understand something, don't weigh in.

Letsjumpthebroomstick · 25/11/2022 21:58

Heartbreaking. I have followed this in the papers. So senseless - that lovely mum and her beautiful children😭 Rest in peace to their souls🙏

TinFoilHatty · 25/11/2022 22:32

A very distressing story, my heart goes out to her family.

Cuppasoupmonster · 25/11/2022 22:35

I saw this earlier, just heartbreaking. 💔

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 25/11/2022 22:43

Heartbreaking doesn't even begin to cover it. If I was the Judge it'd be a straight up Whole life Tariff. If he can do that to a women with 2 innocent children. One can only terrifyingly imagine what he'd do to anyone else.

We all know what happens to women and child killers in prison don't we.
Its all very well him being undoubtedlyquivering on protection but they can still be got to.

Such a beautiful lady and adorable children. RIP Angels

alexdgr8 · 25/11/2022 23:08

the OP has been amended since i objected to it, to remove certain words.

ItsBritneyBitch45 · 26/11/2022 00:23

Letsjumpthebroomstick · 25/11/2022 21:58

Heartbreaking. I have followed this in the papers. So senseless - that lovely mum and her beautiful children😭 Rest in peace to their souls🙏

Rest in peace to this mum and her lovely children💐 they didn’t deserve this at all

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ItsBritneyBitch45 · 26/11/2022 00:26

alexdgr8 · 25/11/2022 23:08

the OP has been amended since i objected to it, to remove certain words.

Are you okay? Are you related to the man who’s been charged or something? Nothing about my OP has been amended, it’s exactly the same. Please don’t act like you weren’t chatting shit when you were completely in the wrong.

If MNHQ would have amended anything from my post, they would have commented on my thread to confirm this. If you don’t want to offer your condolences then please leave this thread with your bs

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MrsBungle · 26/11/2022 00:27

This happened not too far from me. It’s terrible. RIP to a mum and her two beautiful children.

mamacattiva · 26/11/2022 05:49

RIP Fatoumatta, Fatimah and Naeemah, Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un.

I don’t want to say anything that could jeopardise the trial but once again Facebook posts that should have been major warning signs were ignored.

Conkersareback · 26/11/2022 05:55

alexdgr8 · 25/11/2022 23:08

the OP has been amended since i objected to it, to remove certain words.

No it hasn't, stop talking rubbish.

It's very very sad, such a needless waste of life.

hattie43 · 26/11/2022 06:51

I just can't comprehend why someone would do that . Devastating.

phishy · 26/11/2022 08:23

This is heartbreaking. If only we could burn the killer to death.

bellabasset · 26/11/2022 11:18

@ItsBritneyBitch45 Yes it was horrendous at the time.

@alexdgr8 But Fatoumatta's husband has just explained that they were due to go for a final interview to get visas to join him in the US where he works. Instead he spent his 40th birthday in the morgue. People aren't speculating just giving sympathy to him and his wife's family who must be devastated.

ItsBritneyBitch45 · 26/11/2022 13:44

mamacattiva · 26/11/2022 05:49

RIP Fatoumatta, Fatimah and Naeemah, Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un.

I don’t want to say anything that could jeopardise the trial but once again Facebook posts that should have been major warning signs were ignored.

@mamacattiva inshallah they will be granted the highest rank of Jannah🙌🏾

I also saw the Facebook comments via Instagram and I wish I could say I’m shocked but I’m really not. These things often get overlooked. It’s such a shame people are allowed to write such hate speech on social media with no repercussions

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mamacattiva · 26/11/2022 14:17

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Underanothersky · 26/11/2022 14:27

Men are cunts.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 26/11/2022 15:08

Underanothersky · 26/11/2022 14:27

Men are cunts.

There are some people (men and women) in this world who do and say some awful things but that doesn’t mean all men are.
this story is horrific, I cannot imagine what he husband and family are going through

ItsBritneyBitch45 · 26/11/2022 17:29

Still thinking about this poor family😢 I always struggle to stop thinking about situations such as these were their death was avoidable. To take away a woman and her two kids from this world is beyond cruel, my God

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Stressedmum2017 · 26/11/2022 17:37

Just horrific beyond words. There are some absolute lunatics out there. R. I. P poor souls.

Stupid question but did smoke alarm not go off? Made me quite worried.

Conkersareback · 26/11/2022 17:39

Underanothersky · 26/11/2022 14:27

Men are cunts.

Some are, some are pioneering heart specialists!

Good and bad in every type of person.