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What's a lesson you learn the hard way in regards to money and finances

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Cupcakeicecream · 24/11/2022 14:50

What's a lesson you learn the hard way in regards to money and finances.

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EarringsandLipstick · 24/11/2022 15:56

Lots of cheap things add up to a lot of money

I came on to say this; I only realised recently exactly how much I was spending on takeaway drinks.

However, given a lot of those are sideline pitch drinks to keep up energy & warmth, I've decided to accept a certain cost on this one (I can bring my own & do but I drink hot chocolate & it's hard to make that in advance).

My other one is shopping around for insurance, utilities packages is very much worth it, despite me truly hating doing it.

whattodo1975 · 24/11/2022 15:58

Iamboredandgoingforatwix · 24/11/2022 15:41

I'm not lucky enough to be a homeowner or have money to invest in stocks or crypto, but I think people are about to realise that you should never buy at the peak of the market. Things go in cycles, so look at long term data over decades and try to judge where the bottom is before investing, and have cash in place to invest. Not easy to do that at the moment though.

I think everyone knows that you shouldn't by at the peak don't they ?

You are right that things go in cycles, but you'll never "time the market" as they say.

It is better to invest regularly (monthly) small amounts then attempt lump in when you think the bottom is coming.

Megapint · 24/11/2022 15:58

Never give a journo material for an article for free.

ivykaty44 · 24/11/2022 16:05

never a lender or borrower be

I gambled with some money when I was a teen and lost, never did it again

SerenaTee · 24/11/2022 16:07

Don’t spend money you’re expecting to receive, wait til it’s hit your account before thinking of it as yours.

Kazzyhoward · 24/11/2022 16:08

If self employed, keep up to date, good, book-keeping and put aside the tax monies, being VAT, NIC and income tax - don't "borrow" or spend the tax money in the hope of "earning" it through future work.

Watchthesunrise · 24/11/2022 16:11

Power of compound interest.

Working for others (salary) will never make you financially free on its own.

The earlier you start saving and investing, the more it will accumulate. Investing early, and regularly, over the longest time possible is the step that will make you financially free.

Butterlover1 · 24/11/2022 16:11

Be mindful of lifestyle inflation, its so real and happens without realising.

Butterlover1 · 24/11/2022 16:12

Megapint · 24/11/2022 15:58

Never give a journo material for an article for free.

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Busybody2022 · 24/11/2022 16:12

Definitely debt. At 18 and 3 days I was given a £4000 credit card and £2000 loan from my bank. Goes without saying how thst went.

sashagabadon · 24/11/2022 16:12

Start pension as early as you can. Overpay mortgage from day one as much as you can afford and start a s& s isa

Luckydip1 · 24/11/2022 16:15

It's very risky to marry someone who is bad with money.

TodayInahurry · 24/11/2022 16:16

Agree, never borrow money for someone, I worked in the business and saw many women conned by men into doing this. Also never ever guarantee loans for people and be very careful doing it for you children, can cause marriage break downs.

Walkingthedog46 · 24/11/2022 16:19

Don’t give up a well paid job before you’ve secured an equally well paid job to walk into. I did that once and I found to my cost that it ain’t that easy. For a year I did low-paid temping jobs and lived off my savings. I learned a hard lesson but never did that again.

Anyonebut · 24/11/2022 16:21

The problem with never borrowing anything and not having a credit card is that at a later stage that would give you a worse credit rating, for instance for a mortgage, than someone who can show a history of paying back what they have borrowed. So, in certain cases if the terms are to your advantage, it is not necessarily a bad idea to borrow what you can repay.

BeyondMyWits · 24/11/2022 16:22

That sometimes yes the powers that be do expect you to exist on nothing at all.

A leading bank lost my grant check back in the day... accused me of not depositing it, recanted when I showed the proof, but still told me I could spend no money until a replacement had been sourced and cleared. They took my cheque card and cut it up. I was at uni 800 miles from home, with nothing.

I sofa surfed, got a part time job, was paid in cash (it was the 80s, the start of the hospitality revolution), and did not go back to that bank ever again.

I was just gobsmacked. It was their fault.

Chuckiegg · 24/11/2022 16:24

Debt is horrible.

TheHouseElf · 24/11/2022 16:25

Never trust the Government, Left or Right, Labour or Tory, they are all liars.

ISaidDontLickTheBin · 24/11/2022 16:25

Don't miss credit card payments because you are young and lazy - they stay on your credit report for years and you get asked about them when you've grown up a lot and want to buy a house.

SilverCatStripes · 24/11/2022 16:26

Don’t gamble. The house will win ……eventually.

CurlsandSwirls · 24/11/2022 16:27

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Bestcatmum · 24/11/2022 16:27

Save, save, save however tiny an amount and get a pension in your 20's.
Don't get a credit card. You don't need one, I have managed just fine without one for years since I paid of 20k which was a collosal effort and I had no life or luxuries while I was paying it off.

Rowthe · 24/11/2022 16:28

Never a borrower or lender be.

Avoid lending its money lost

Xgle · 24/11/2022 16:29

Running a business is risky, once your money is tied in it’s hard to get out and quit

Rowthe · 24/11/2022 16:31

Learn the magic of compound interest.

The shock I got in my Maths A Level lesson.

Luckily it meant I would always be very frugal when incomes to borrowing money from a young age.