My husband and his colleagues are all male. Their boss is the only female.
I remember after his interview, he said how weird she was, asking about girlfriends/wife/kids etc. I reassured him she was probably just taking an interest and not to over think it. I think I laughed at him as he was convinced she fancied him. He got the job.
He showed me the messages where he would ask something simple about work and she would reply calling him babe and put kisses at the end of the message. I thought it was weird but just presumed it was a female thing. He spoke to his other colleagues and one admitted to sleeping with her in the past and one is sleeping with her now. It turns out she’s a flirt, not just with my husband, with all of them. Most of the men love it, but my husband does not.
One day he came home from work horrified because she had hugged him to say thank you for his hard work. He said she flirts to get her own way, and if it doesn’t work, she turns into a right b!tch. I trust my husband and I know he’s not interested in her but she’s starting to p!ss me off now.
1 - She bought him a new shirt (not a work shirt, just a normal shirt) just because she thought it would look good on him?
2 - He booked my birthday off so we could do something special together and she spent all morning texting and trying to call him. She was asking him to come to work and said he can spend time with me another day, it didn’t have to be on my actual birthday!
3 - I make my husband a packed lunch every day, but she keeps bringing in food for him, and the others, insisting hers is better.
I thought at first, it was all in my husband’s head, that he wasn’t used to having a female boss but I know this is all off.