To not know what to do

[Yorkshirepuddingg]

Long time lurker, joined for some advice.

Im in a situation I cannot see how to deal with. I have found out I’m pregnant however I’m in a really bad situation right now which isn’t great for a child. I work part time and I am on universal credit also, I’m currently sanctioned with a week left to pay day from my job and have been skipping meals to get by. I don’t even know if this will affect my pregnancy. The father doesn’t want to know and I have no family or friends to reach out for support.
I hsve contacted universal credit who have given me an appointment so I can see what help I’m eligible for but it’s not for another week.
I struggle with mental health problems which is why I currently work part time but I’m worried that even if I now try to get into full time employment I won’t be employable due to my pregnancy. I’m due next July.

I want my baby but I’m worried I won’t be able to have them as I’m quite literally going hungry as it is and worry I’m not employable more than I do now. Is the skipping meals until next week going to affect my pregnancy? It’s not my first but I previously had to have an abortion. I’m so worried

Are there any food banks where you can get food for yourself?

Who is housing you? Private or HA/council?

I’m currently staying with a friend until just before Christmas and then they are moving home which is hours away which is why the support isn’t long term. They are currently away.

So where will you live?

I don't think you're in a position to have a child . As harsh as it sounds I think you need to get yourself in a good place before you even consider a child and it's needs

This is my thoughts too 😔

Why would you skip meals rather than go to a food bank?

This is very sad, I’m sorry for what you are going through. Why are you sanctioned? Can you appeal this? What about dropping in to citizens advice or a money matters type service? You may be able to get a crisis grant from your local authority. Have you booked in with your pregnancy? If not that may be a good place to start, in my area it’s a phone call with a midwife so you can explain your situation and likely refer you to a foodbqnk, although some are self referral. Are you on a housing list? I’m sure you could make this work if you want to but you’ll need to be very active in seeking help.

Yes I missed the sanction part....what's that about op?