I just posted another thread about a trivial (in comparison)matter and realised I really need to talk to someone about my husband. If I can please post about him here and get some support:
I’ll just focus on yesterday’s incident: I took my eldest to library whilst he had baby at home. Baby was sleeping so he didn’t need to do anything. I came back and he was in a mood. He started ranting at me that he’s stressed and he was asking me for some letter and I was finding it. He found it then disappeared for the whole day. Came back at 10pm by which time we were in bed (I’m sleeping in kids room), he was screaming n shouting as he lost his phone and was crying, my eldest was awake and laughing as she’s quite innocent so she think “daddy is being silly”. He came into the room and took blanket off me and screamed he’s lost his phone.
I got up and helped him find it. He smashed up the house and throw things everywhere. He finally found it in the car.
he kept coming into the room telling me to get out and how much he hates me. He continued crying all night. Eldest had gone to sleep so didn’t witness the rest.
this morning I’ve tried to talk to him but he’s ignoring me.
mum not happy and waiting to get my “ducks in a row” or do they say before I can leave.
he’s not a good person, I’ve found so many awful emails he’s wrote and adverts he put out saying he wants to be a “financial slave” to these women. It made me so sick. I posted a few years when I found out and got some insight into what he was doing as I never heard of this before.
I’m a mess right now, I have my babies party in a couple of weeks and he’s told me there’s no chance I’m having it in his house (it’s his house, he had it before we married and it’s all in his name).