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AIBU to be totally confused about choosing a new kingsize bed and a bed for toddler

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Dreamqueen · 17/11/2022 20:46

I'm looking for a new kingsize divan bed to buy as a gift for DIL & DS anda bed for DGD. I've looked online at 100s of beds and I have only ended up more confused. Budget is 600-700. I want to choose a bed that will last. please tell me your best buys. I thought i'd found the perfect one but then read the trustpilot reviews so that choice has gone out the window. It's a significant amount to spend and I don't want to make an expensive mistake.

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knittingaddict · 17/11/2022 20:50

Let them choose it. Beds are very personal and I don't think you can buy a bed for someone else.

Dreamqueen · 17/11/2022 20:53

Sorry should have said that DIL and DS have asked me for help to choose it. It's a Chrishmas gift for them. Their last bed waasn't a great buy & thy're worried about choosing wrong again. Their matress isn't a priority to replace but the slats on the old bed have broken so thats why they want a divan this time.

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FolornLawn · 17/11/2022 20:56

I thought a divan still had slats but they were in the box bit.

tealandteal · 17/11/2022 21:00

Honestly, they are not as pretty but I would get a divan bed. We have had a few beds (ours and in the sore room) and the slats always break. We bought a new divan bed last year with a separate head board which was more of the look I wanted (wooden).

CocoonofDavid · 17/11/2022 21:11

Op, we had the issue with slats breaking on beds (nothing we were doing - my husband wishes I’m sure!).

I’d chosen a bed because I liked the style of frame- but it wasn’t expensive and it was shoddy quality. Within a year several slats had gone.

i started Googling on Amazon to see if you could get replacement but sturdier slats for existing beds.

I found (on Amazon) fold out metal bed legs/metal mesh for the mattress to sit on, style frames. We had a king size mattress and our old bed frame was obviously king sized too. I bought a double sized fold out frame, unscrewed the central metal pole that went from head to foot and then took out the slats, so that the old frame was just an empty rectangle. Then placed the double sized fold out frame inside the old bed frame. Sounds complicated but very simple!

It has been a brilliant solution! The supporting frame is absolutely rock solid, it doesn’t move even when the 6 year old sneakily jumps on the bed. You can’t see it unless you bend down and peer under the bed and can see we have an extra 6 black legs inside the 4 brass legs of the actual frame.

I appreciate maybe you want to buy them a nice present, so this is not relevant but if they like their current bed frame it may be an option?

We have usually had super king or king sized beds, one of which was pretty blooming expensive from John Lewis and I found that it’s always the slats that go. It seems more of a problem the wider bed you go with. DH is nearly 6’4 and we co-slept for several years so we needed the bed space.

i can find the name of the frame of you like? I think it began with Z….

LikeTearsInRain · 17/11/2022 21:14

Divans look awful. Are you sure they even want one? If you do go for one you’ll want to get a good headboard to make it look half decent.

Oak furniture land will do a sturdy frame in your price range.

Are you buying mattresses too or will they use their current ones?

CocoonofDavid · 17/11/2022 21:14

Found it…

AIBU to be totally confused about choosing a new kingsize bed and a bed for toddler
spidereggs · 17/11/2022 21:16

Honestly, where are you? Find a local furniture shop and go there.

I did this last year in a rage, after five of us on a mattress double in kitchen for 12 nights in storm Arwen power cut.

They were so helpful, can price match, advise, build, deliver and remove old stuff.

As someone who had fallen into online trap, I was wrong. Shop local and see what they offer

AloysiusBear · 17/11/2022 21:16

Does your budget have to include both the kingsize bed & the child's bed? £600 isn't a massive budget.

Since when do bed slats break?! Dh and u have 6 bedframes, we've never had a bed slat break!!

Pearfacebanana · 17/11/2022 21:38

Get the premier inn bed from Hypnos.

Dreamqueen · 17/11/2022 22:14

CocoonofDavid · 17/11/2022 21:14

Found it…

Thank you

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Dreamqueen · 17/11/2022 22:15

AloysiusBear · 17/11/2022 21:16

Does your budget have to include both the kingsize bed & the child's bed? £600 isn't a massive budget.

Since when do bed slats break?! Dh and u have 6 bedframes, we've never had a bed slat break!!

No the 600 is for the king size bed.

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