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AIBU?

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To really struggle to concentrate when working in the office?

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rfghjygtb · 16/11/2022 14:55

I work in a hybrid role and avoid going into the office as much as possible, as when I'm there I really struggle to concentrate. It's a huge open plan office, I think there's around 300 desks in total.

All around me I can hear colleagues talking and on Teams calls (fair enough), but I really struggle to concentrate on my work as I can't help but hear their conversations. I was in a call and the colleagues around me were so loud I was told to mute myself as they could be heard on the call.

I also really struggle just being around others whilst working, as I worry people are watching me on my screen. My manager was sat behind me and I felt self-conscious like she might be watching me spend ages on something.

Yesterday I just felt so frustrated in the office as I could not concentrate. I decided to stay later so I could finish up my work in peace, but an hour later there were still loads of colleagues just milling around chatting (fair enough), then I thought I'd just go to the coffee shop and work there but it was closed, then I thought I'd work on the train but there were delays and it was busy so I didn't get a seat.

I do have anxiety for context, and this is my first office job so I don't have any experience of pre-COVID when everyone was in the office 5 days a week, so I'm probably spoilt from the luxury of working from home. I try and make accommodations for myself, like I always book a seat near the window and/or in the corner, and I try and plan my workload so that I have easier tasks for days when I'm in the office, but AIBU to still struggle and wonder if anyone else experiences the same issue, or if anyone has any advice?

OP posts:
EVHead · 16/11/2022 14:56

Ear buds/headphones?

RandomPerson42 · 16/11/2022 15:03

I too hate having people behind me when am working on a large screen - it never bothered me when I used a laptop though.

Get some good earphones to help silence your immediate environment.

Airpods Pro are good for active noise cancelling, but you can get even better passive noise isolating ones such as the passive noise ones from Etymotic (ER2SE are reasonable price-wise) - but the ones designed for reducing volume at concerts are probably not the ones you want.

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