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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To leave my new job after a week? (lonely and unprepared)

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flounderingdramatically · 15/11/2022 21:31

Just started a new job in hospital admin. My last job was in an open-plan office. There were always people milling about, and I had plenty of opportunities to connect with my colleagues.

Here, I work in an office with one other woman. We're very isolated from other areas of the hospital. No one else comes to the office and I have no excuses to talk to people in other departments.

My colleague and I have nothing in common personality-wise. I know this because she's the kind of person who airs her political/personal opinions openly, and I generally disagree with them. She also prefers to eat lunch at her desk. I go to the lunch room, but it's either empty or there are groups of nurses together who are close friends. So I don't want to intrude.

I am a very sociable person, and I feel so out of place here. On top of this, I haven't received proper training and my manager is never available to help me. My colleague seems to be growing tired of me constantly asking questions. I'm sitting here dreading going back tomorrow.

I have about 6 months worth of savings, but no new opportunities lined up. I also have no children. AIBU to just say fuck it and quit? Or should I stick it out til I find something else? Would love to hear any similar stories and how you coped.

OP posts:
youhadmeatsausageroll · 15/11/2022 21:35

Sorry you’re struggling OP, the first few weeks are also a bit difficult so I would stick with it if I were you. I also think it’s easier to find a job when you’re already employed, so why don’t you start applying for others now? That way if things don’t get better you can hopefully find something else to move on to?
Good luck!

Artygirlghost · 15/11/2022 21:36

I left my previous job after a month.

I hated everything about it: the people, the work, the endless meetings. I knew after two days that it was just the wrong environment for me.

I ended up finding a new job in my last week in that job.

If you are confident you can find something else and have enough savings then go for it. At least you will be able to leave that job out of your CV as well.

polkadotclip · 15/11/2022 21:39

Sorry to hear OP, you might be making the right call though if it really isn't for you.

In a hospital opportunities must come up a lot .. any chance of asking HR if anything else is on the horizon?

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