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To think media overhypes the cost of living.

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Krazykat80 · 15/11/2022 19:48

Everyday you see on the news people at rock bottom. Today I saw a father boiling the kettle to give is son a bath because he couldn't afford gas etc. I understand this is a reality for some but the media makes it seem like its wide spread and everyone is really struggling. When I go into town on the weekend I still see bars ,restaurants amusement , theatre's, shops like selfridges full etc. I'm starting to think the media keeps showing us these stories to keep us from going out and protesting against rises in cost of food etc. I say this because today I saw a lot of people in clothes not fit for the pouring rain soaking wet and felt guilty for being dry in my waterproof jacket with my shopping and felt grateful even those I don't have loads. I said I feel guilty and he said yes that's why the media keeps showing you it so you think I should be thankful I'm not in that position instead of going out like some countries on the streets and telling the government to do something about it and it Stops riots because of the rich getting richer out of this crisis Oil companies even Jeff amazon dude feels guilty and wants to give his money he stole off people by not paying them properly etc. I walk around tesco and people's baskets are still full. Am I just a conspiracy knob about the media really overhypering it to keep us quiet ansdobenident.

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Mummieslncorporated · 15/11/2022 21:14

orbitalcrisis · 15/11/2022 21:08

I've heard that vegetarianism is very popular, but I was in the butcher's shop the other day and everyone in there was buying meat, so I don't think it is as widespread as people make out.

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BrieAndChilli · 15/11/2022 21:17

The problem is that it’s a staggered fall into crisis.
many people are still on fixed rates, mortgages still got a few years left at current fix, people are still going on holidays that have been postponed due to covid, so only some people are seeing immediate rises in the above. Next summer once everyone’s utilities have increased, rent and mortgages are increased, and people can’t afford the luxuries they currently can we will see more and more businesses closing resulting in redundancies and it will be a slippery slope down for everyone even the currently well off.

girlfriend44 · 15/11/2022 21:36

I saw that man on the news with his sons.

He was very poor there were three of them in the bed and not much food in the fridge.

They had lots of offers of help alot of people phoned in to offer help.

Skinnermarink · 15/11/2022 21:37

BrieAndChilli · 15/11/2022 21:17

The problem is that it’s a staggered fall into crisis.
many people are still on fixed rates, mortgages still got a few years left at current fix, people are still going on holidays that have been postponed due to covid, so only some people are seeing immediate rises in the above. Next summer once everyone’s utilities have increased, rent and mortgages are increased, and people can’t afford the luxuries they currently can we will see more and more businesses closing resulting in redundancies and it will be a slippery slope down for everyone even the currently well off.

Exactly this! I wanted to say similar but the OP rubbed me up the wrong way.

drkpl · 15/11/2022 21:39

Easy to say if you’re not being affected by it.

gogohmm · 15/11/2022 21:42

Some people are more affected than others. But also the media want to find extremes that make a dramatic story - eg the mother of 7, children's dad(s) not mentioned struggling because she needs a large home for her family etc etc.

NC12345665 · 15/11/2022 21:48

Are you drunk or are you always like this, op?

tigger1001 · 15/11/2022 21:52

SavingKitten · 15/11/2022 20:17

Have you not noticed lots of people striking? Trains, tubes, bus companies, nurses are striking soon, pretty sure jacobs crackers staff were on strike today.

This. And can add teachers to the list too, certainly where I am.

There are always people who are more cushioned than others. But I also think the rises haven't really bitten yet for lots of people. People for example have some time to go on a good fixed rate mortgage, are insulated for the time being from large increases in their mortgages where others are having to get mortgages at a much higher rate of interest than they are used to.

Glumbums · 15/11/2022 21:56

No they are not over hyping the crisis. Nurses are having to rely on food banks in hospitals for example. Of course people are still buying food. You need food to survive.

Ginandthings · 15/11/2022 22:20

I track my grocery spend every month, today I am £30 below what I spent last month, there are still 15 days left of this month. I have already cut back, cancelled things where I can, heating is only on low to take the chill off when needed. I earn a decent wage and am not in dire straits yet but I can see it will get worse and that worries me.
if you can’t see the fact that everything is costing more and realise that will eventually impact most people then that’s very short sighted.

XenoBitch · 15/11/2022 22:22

It caused some scaremongering. A relative of mine was considering suicide after reading that household bills would be nearly £3k. He lives alone in a small flat. Why would his bills hit £3k? Media told him that it would.

DoubleShotEspresso · 16/11/2022 07:57

No.

luxxlisbon · 16/11/2022 08:29

@XenoBitch Media told him that it would.

No it didn’t. If there is a news story on ‘average’ good spend, ‘average’ energy bill etc that obviously doesn’t apply to everyone and it isn’t the media telling them it does.

onedayiwillmissthis · 16/11/2022 08:31

Gary Stevenson on YouTube (@GARYSECONOMICS) explains quite clearly what the hell is going on, not just in UK, but globally.

He's an Economist and former interest trader in London & Tokyo. His clear explanation of the difference between 'wealthy' and 'rich', and the way money is being moved UP to the wealthy NOT trickling down was eye opening.

We are all so busy trying to survive that we have neither time or energy left to see the bigger picture.

But it's happening...while we are fighting over the yellow stickers...and turning our heating down/off...and cancelling Netflix etc...or bunging all our shopping on credit cards in the hope that the problem will be temporary.

The bigger picture is disturbing but we need to face up to it.

Trainbear · 16/11/2022 08:47

Krazykat80 · 15/11/2022 19:48

Everyday you see on the news people at rock bottom. Today I saw a father boiling the kettle to give is son a bath because he couldn't afford gas etc. I understand this is a reality for some but the media makes it seem like its wide spread and everyone is really struggling. When I go into town on the weekend I still see bars ,restaurants amusement , theatre's, shops like selfridges full etc. I'm starting to think the media keeps showing us these stories to keep us from going out and protesting against rises in cost of food etc. I say this because today I saw a lot of people in clothes not fit for the pouring rain soaking wet and felt guilty for being dry in my waterproof jacket with my shopping and felt grateful even those I don't have loads. I said I feel guilty and he said yes that's why the media keeps showing you it so you think I should be thankful I'm not in that position instead of going out like some countries on the streets and telling the government to do something about it and it Stops riots because of the rich getting richer out of this crisis Oil companies even Jeff amazon dude feels guilty and wants to give his money he stole off people by not paying them properly etc. I walk around tesco and people's baskets are still full. Am I just a conspiracy knob about the media really overhypering it to keep us quiet ansdobenident.

The same media channels that do aspirational living “ Tarquinius and Lucretia ONLY have £500000 to but a house in Loamshire” oh the humanity!

Redkettle · 16/11/2022 08:56

Bought hash browns yesterday. They've gone up from a pound to 1.70 in couple of weeks. Supermarkets are taking the piss

Alysskea · 16/11/2022 08:58

The people struggling, the majority, are not and were never the people in Selfridges for f sake.

BeyondThinkOfTheOptics · 16/11/2022 08:59

bellac11 · 15/11/2022 19:50

Do you mean 'overhypes the cost of living' or 'overhypes the cost of living crisis'?

It's the new "suffering from mental health"!

Bettybooboo13 · 16/11/2022 09:03

Sometimes think these posts are planted by politicians to get us fighting amongst ourselves instead of uniting in a common goal to be supportive and kind.

OccultOctopus · 16/11/2022 09:04

luxxlisbon · 15/11/2022 19:50

I walk around tesco and people's baskets are still full.

Fuck me, how many times do we need to hear this????

FPNI

Qwayserdeyas · 16/11/2022 09:11

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IncessantNameChanger · 16/11/2022 09:17

We get these posts daily now.

I have less money than I did this time last year. But I still have four kids. They still need to eat. You can't see the temperature inside my house when you look at my shopping basket. You can't see if my trolly is full of expensive or cheapest food.

My clothes don't disintegrate after 12 months so I'm still in my £100 coat.

I still go to out occasionally. I was out for four hours last Friday and I spent £5 in that pub.

OP has your fuel bills not gone up? Is your food the same price? Does your income raise in line with inflation?

londongals · 16/11/2022 09:24

The media does not report the millions of people in the Uk who are doing fine
It does not suit the BBC or the Guardian

needthiswilderness · 16/11/2022 09:28

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GeologyBedRock · 16/11/2022 09:39

My shop yesterday cost £110 a few months ago a weekly shop was £70 I did get about £10-15 of Xmas bits but that is still a £25 a week increase. Luckily my mortgage and utilities were fixed before rises so I am able to cope with the increase. I realise i am lucky. ONS have release figures which I believe puts about 1 in 3 children now living below poverty line. That's 10kids in every class perhaps not eating breakfast. This should not be happening in a first world country.

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