Neighbours DS is 16/17, when first they moved in about 3 years ago, he'd walk our dog a few times a week. It was fine and he was polite etc, his behaviour then changed, I’d constantly hear him shouting at his mum and he stopped walking the dog, police brought him home a on more than one occasion, one occasion wasn't too long ago.
Yesterday, he was out cleaning one of the cars and asked DH if he wanted him to clean his after. DH said yes and after he paid him and told him to ask me to do today as we're currently sorting things and he'd be able to help with moving things, he asked me and I told him politely that I don't need his help, he then mentioned taking the dog for a walk like he used to as he's bored and I told him he'd already been for a walk.
His mum then came round and told me I was being unfair on him, he's been kicked out of college so he's trying to do find a job but he's struggling so he very kindly offered to do jobs for me, DH has agreed with her and told me the boy told him yesterday no one gives him a chance anymore so he was happy DH did.
Was I BU?