I've just had a weekend at my brother's place in the Mediterranean. He has lived there for years. He and I both got divorced about ten years ago and so we have seen quite a lot of each other since and enjoy talking about life, the universe etc whilst drinking wine in the sunshine. Recently a new woman appeared in his life and I really liked her when I first met her last year, she's lively and fun and enjoys hosting and cooking. They have had a bumpy year or two as she wants total commitment whilst bro wanted only part time and to keep some personal time. It's a bit uneasy as neither are really getting what they want.
Anyway she's now decided I need fixing up as I am also wrong about relationships.
I dated for a while after divorcing but gave up as I was having no luck, just bad experiences. I no longer want it need to be involved with anyone and I'm enjoying the solo life.
She started off with saying "and now we need to find Scyla a man" about a year ago. I said I didn't want that.
A year later I'm fed up of hearing about it. This weekend she got very drunk and at dinner was all literally shouting at me wagging her finger in my face about how wrong I am and how I'm not happy. I tried to laugh it off because it's so stupid, a woman I have only known for a year a so seems to believe she has a better handle on my emotions despite barely knowing me or my life at all than I do, it's silly. But then she started saying that my problems (I don't have any problems) are because the worst thing I did was to leave my husband.(ten years before this woman appeared in my brother's life.)
Honestly I think she went to far there. She was ranting this at me. It's definitely changed my affection for her right now, I feel like she's out of order. Do I just ignore it because she was drunk and just think it doesn't matter or does it? I'm happy for people to be as drunk as they like as long as they don't turn aggressive and behave like a twat but I wonder if I'm being unreasonable with this particular drunk twat!. As I said this has been getting steadily worse.