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To think that since covid happened some businesses have 'got lazy and stayed lazy'

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Ilovechocolate87 · 12/11/2022 23:01

DH and i used to have an expression a couple of years back 'because covid' which we used when we thought a company was just using the virus as an excuse for not doing something properly or making unnecessary cutbacks.

But even now it seems that this is STILL continuing, but for no legitimate reason!

Some examples include;
-Our local bank shutting at 3pm...every day of the week.Crap for 9-5 working people like DH!

  • No fireworks display at center parcs, which is a shame as it was really good and atmospheric over the lake.
  • Soft play at our local sealife centre sitting there unused and wasted...such a shame as there is nothing wrong with it.
  • Fitting rooms have been scrapped at sainsburys and asda (maybe elsewhere too?) so there is nowhere to try on clothes, resulting in either having to order online and have the expense and bother of posting it back if its not right (which it often isn't) or travelling to return it, neither of which are very good for the environment either, with all that plastic packaging and fuel!)

Has anyone else noticed that it just seems like SOME businesses/companies 'can't be bothered' anymore and are just doing the minimum possible? And the most frustrating thing is that as usual, they make the cutbacks, but the prices keep on going up!!

OP posts:
ofwarren · 13/11/2022 08:41

The booking in advance thing is so annoying. I can't even take my DS to the barbers in our village without booking when it used to be 100% walk in. It was much easier.
One I really hate though is children's clinics, hospital wards and doctors surgeries who no longer have toys or books for the children. One of my DS has a lot of medical issues and attends these places frequently. They used to all have things for him to do, but now none do.
He was an in patient a few weeks back and the toy room was totally closed 'cos covid'.

IamTheBridge · 13/11/2022 08:43

Sparklingbrook · 13/11/2022 08:34

I have lost count of the number of times I've rung big companies etc this year where the conversation has been interrupted by the employee's barking dogs, screaming children and front doorbell. How professional.

Yes and they expect you to give them details like credit cards - they can fuck right off.

Sparklingbrook · 13/11/2022 08:43

Ah, another one who thinks working from home must mean customer service

When you have something a bit worrying you want sorting I think that's a fair expectation but I see what you are saying.
I really like 'Live Chat' when it works but not many companies have brought that back, and you'd never know if the operator was spooning dinner into a baby as they typed replies.

daisychain01 · 13/11/2022 08:43

GladysPew · 13/11/2022 08:24

"Your call is important to us so please do continue to hold"..................

I was so convinced my bank cared, I waited on hold for 2 sodding hours but they obviously ran out of cares so I hung up. Angry

I did get a mortgage review appt in the end by raising a complaint and getting one through my branch (which has still survived], but I think they've kicked my complaint into the long grass and I didn't have the heart to mention it to the nice lady who helped us because it wasn't her fault.

i think what grates is the amount of wasted time and inconvenience these big corporates put its customers through, and how they pat themselves on the back at their AGM at all the profit they've made in the last year, which is basically due to having zero customer service and obscuring the fact that customers waiting for 000s of collective hours on phone lines is passing on cost to those customers and removing it from their own P&L.

Kazzyhoward · 13/11/2022 08:44

@OMG12

Evert sector has a recruitment crisis, from lawyers and accountants to bars to hotels to nhs.

And yet, graduates are finding it harder than ever to even get through the first few stages of the recruitment processes for the major employers. I'm not talking about "Mickey Mouse" degrees, I'm talking about Maths/STEM graduates. I know a few students including my son, who are spending a few hours every single day, applying for graduate scheme employment, yet getting nowhere. They've been working with the Uni careers services to "tweak" their cvs, attend mock interview sessions, undergone sessions on pychometric testing, etc. If there is a genuine shortage of professional workers, then the employers aren't trying hard to recruit, certainly not increasing the numbers of training places.

Likewise with nursing and doctors. Medical school places are still far too few for the workers we need. That's been the case for 50 years now! A decade ago the BMA held a vote of members which decided to limit trainee places in medical schools and not to allow any new medical schools! That's been eased since, but shows the stupidity and mistakes of the past few decades, not just politicians, but unions too!

Large employers, including the NHS, and their staff, need to embrace trainee schemes, recruitment of young people, etc., as it's our only hope of solving current problems.

Sparklingbrook · 13/11/2022 08:44

IamTheBridge · 13/11/2022 08:43

Yes and they expect you to give them details like credit cards - they can fuck right off.

It is concerning.

Mybestyear · 13/11/2022 08:45

PurpleButterflyWings · 12/11/2022 23:33

100% agree @Ilovechocolate87 The doctors, and dentists are a good example. But also many other 'services.' SO SICK of them STILL blaming covid. My friend needs face to face appointments with a specialist for the condition she has, and she has had ONE since October 2019. (December 2021 actually.) They keep saying they are behind 'because covid.' I - and many people I know - also have a struggle to get a GP appointment, and 3 times out of 4, you have a 35-40 minute wait for them to answer the phone.

Also, 2 banks in our local market town high street have cut hours too, and one is closing for good in January. We will have just ONE bank left then. I think they wanted to cut staff/close branches/cut hours, and covid has given them a good reason to do it. There is a minimum 15 minute wait to get served EVERY TIME you go in. I have heard the Argos store is for the chop next. The closest one to me then will be 18 miles away.

Then we have queues everywhere... In person, and on the phone. SO ridiculously hard to get to speak to a PERSON on the phone these days. The DVLA, my catalogue, my insurance company, my energy provider. 20 to 30 minutes on the phone sometimes, and I can't get anyone to answer! And even when I do, the person doesn't know what they are on about and cannot help me, as they just have the basic script in front of them to read off!

And as for Hermes/Evri. IMPOSSIBLE to EVER get anyone to speak to there! Same if you call big chain stores. IMPOSSIBLE to get to speak to the person you want, or to even get a person to answer the phone.

And don't even get me STARTED on the shops and stores who don't have half the stock you want, and have shelves 30-40% empty most of the time. Why? Because Brexit, because covid, because lorry driver strikes, because Ukraine war, because staff shortages. ALWAYS AN EXCUSE.

In addition.... Skyrocketing fuel and energy prices, because of the Ukraine war, apparently. Prices of Food and household goods and services skyrocketing over and over!!! WHY?!!!!!!!!!

SICK of it now. I don't believe for a SECOND that they all need to put up the prices so high - petrol, gas and electric, (OR food and household goods!) And I genuinely believe we are being mugged off/fucked over. What can we do to stop it? Or prove we ARE being fucked over. FUCK ALL! That's what!

THEN there's the passport office, and the DVLA.. SHOCKING service this past 3 years. And also post office delays because of strikes, and peoples landlords delaying repair work because of shortage of staff/workers. No shortage of staff when it comes to collecting the rent though funnily enough. Hmm

All of this makes me want to fall off the planet some days, honestly. I am SO SICK of it all, and don't see it getting better anytime soon. There seems to be no end to this shit.

@PurpleButterflyWings - I hear you! I lost my shit last week with Sky over a simple request to buy (or at least try to) more data. It took hours of phone calls, online chats with the fucking bot, emails, tweeting, private messaging until I eventually logged on official complaint out of sheer frustration - and all for a fiver of data!! Complaint handler tried to fob me off with changes in staffing post covid - but they’ve no trouble constantly emailing, texting and even posting shit to try and get me to upgrade!!

as a side note - I loathe Sky and only have it as we are a footy mad house. There customer service is shit.

And it really fucking annoys me when, if you can’t find your solution online after wading through a million “offers” (one was save £876 on a phone package - how much is it if you are “saving” nearly 900 quid!!!), you get directed to the online community for help, ie customers, with a warning they aren’t Sky employees so Sky take no responsibility for what they tell you!!

I think covid has allowed a lot of poor service to develop and go under the radar to an extent. I had an awful week last week just trying to sort out a few issues and said to DH that there seems to be so many people/organisations who are just not doing their job right. I am now starting to understand those who go and live off grid - seems really tempting at the moment!!

NellyCat · 13/11/2022 08:45

Definitely GP surgeries!

Twiglets1 · 13/11/2022 08:45

SirMingeALot · 13/11/2022 08:36

Maybe what you say is true and employees in demand have the luxury of choosing to continue to wfh if that suits their individual circumstances, regardless of the impact on their customers or clients. But if that’s true, then at least own it.
Just seems strange to complain on Mumsnet that they can’t effectively wfh while insisting that they do still need to wfh.

The poster concerned couldn't return to the office more though, her employer has told her not to and there isn't a space for her to work. And for the part she can control, getting a second line, the 'why should I' is owning it.

We’re going to have to agree to disagree. Though the “why should I” comment was not made about wfh.
I know how Unis work - they are not the sort of employer who would tell a staff member they are not allowed to return to the office. People are choosing to continue wfh because it suits them - fair enough - and the employer is using that as an excuse to save costs in office space etc.
Its all understandable but the net result is a poor customer service experience, which is what this thread is about.

Jumanji89 · 13/11/2022 08:45

Another one here for having to book in advance. The pub in our village also does food and quite often pre Covid we would go for an impromtu meal. Tried this a month ago loads of space and wascasked if we'd booked online and if not we couldn't eat. I said no went onto my phone and could book a table there and then which I showed the waiter but didn't bother out of principle. I just think people and businesses got used to being awkward and having Covid to hide behind

NoTwainNoGain · 13/11/2022 08:46

I've got an operation this week and received a message saying 'do not attend if you have a cough or temperature'. I have been waiting over a year for this procedure and I have a bloody cough. I'm consistently testing negative for COVID but by their standards I won't be able to have it done.

Sparklingbrook · 13/11/2022 08:47

I do like the ordering from your table using the QR card in a restaurant though. I'll keep that.

Coffeepot72 · 13/11/2022 08:47

Not sure if this is covid-related or just shocking customer service, we were in Manchester earlier in the year, it was a Saturday night and we got back to our hotel just before 10pm, to find the bar had closed! We complained to the receptionist, who was mystified, and to be fair she eventually found someone who grudgingly served us. Cheers!

SirMingeALot · 13/11/2022 08:48

When you have something a bit worrying you want sorting I think that's a fair expectation but I see what you are saying.

Yeah, it's just a different point. Do I want better customer service not involving people simultaneously looking after their kids and working and is it possible to generalise about all wfh from my own experiences of people doing only one role aren't the same question.

MadOnHer · 13/11/2022 08:48

Haven’t RTFT but a concerning one is social workers doing all their meetings online and from home. I work with them in a professional capacity and I just cannot understand how children’s social care thinks this is an appropriate alternative to face to face meetings, particularly for statutory meetings like child protection case conferences?!

i was in a meeting with a social worker the other day who ‘preferred to keep her camera off’. And another where the social worker had to interrupt the meeting to deal with builders in her house.

SO unprofessional. What is happening to this world?

I think online meetings should only be in exceptional circumstances when it comes to this kind of sensitive family work.. Not to accommodate social workers who prefer it or councils who don’t want to provide office space. ‘Because covid’ is also no longer a valid excuse!

bluejelly · 13/11/2022 08:49

I know what you mean. Having to check out of an Airbnb at 10am because of 'enhanced cleaning procedures due to Covid'. Ridiculous.
Having said that I much prefer telephone appts with GPs as don't have to take time off work to see the doctor at the surgery.

Twiglets1 · 13/11/2022 08:50

NoTwainNoGain · 13/11/2022 08:46

I've got an operation this week and received a message saying 'do not attend if you have a cough or temperature'. I have been waiting over a year for this procedure and I have a bloody cough. I'm consistently testing negative for COVID but by their standards I won't be able to have it done.

I think most people in your situation would go ahead with the operation and just not tell them, unless they were actually sick or had confirmed Covid. It’s winter - people will have colds and coughs.

fjäl · 13/11/2022 08:51

Dibbydoos · 13/11/2022 08:29

They can't get employees - sad state of affair but workers have become lazy and few want to work for minimum wage. 😞

I know coffee shop owners who are having to pay close to £20ph to get staff....

Oh ducking hell no one wants to work for minimum wage! What they actually want to be able to live and eat and pay their bills!? How greedy and lazy!

SirMingeALot · 13/11/2022 08:51

We’re going to have to agree to disagree.

Well, what the poster actually wrote is right there, so it's not really an agree to disagree issue. People will just read it and see for themselves.

Though the “why should I” comment was not made about wfh.

Didn't say it was. It was made about the part of the situation that the poster could actually control though, so ultimately there's just no basis to what you said about not owning it.

I know how Unis work - they are not the sort of employer who would tell a staff member they are not allowed to return to the office.

Higher education is a massive sector comprising a diverse range of institutions and people in a wide range of roles. Are you trying to say that despite all this, because you 'know how unis work' the poster isn't giving an accurate account?

Recycledblonde · 13/11/2022 08:56

I call a lot of GP surgeries for work and find that some are awful and some are really good. If some can be good, why can’t all of them?
I did an e-consult with my surgery at 8.30am and had a call back at 10.30am the same day and the issue was sorted. Why can’t other surgeries do that. Every time I’ve had to call them I’ve only waited a couple of minutes to be answered.
Credit card companies are dreadful with an hour plus on hold each time.

Morph22010 · 13/11/2022 08:59

Kazzyhoward · 13/11/2022 08:44

@OMG12

Evert sector has a recruitment crisis, from lawyers and accountants to bars to hotels to nhs.

And yet, graduates are finding it harder than ever to even get through the first few stages of the recruitment processes for the major employers. I'm not talking about "Mickey Mouse" degrees, I'm talking about Maths/STEM graduates. I know a few students including my son, who are spending a few hours every single day, applying for graduate scheme employment, yet getting nowhere. They've been working with the Uni careers services to "tweak" their cvs, attend mock interview sessions, undergone sessions on pychometric testing, etc. If there is a genuine shortage of professional workers, then the employers aren't trying hard to recruit, certainly not increasing the numbers of training places.

Likewise with nursing and doctors. Medical school places are still far too few for the workers we need. That's been the case for 50 years now! A decade ago the BMA held a vote of members which decided to limit trainee places in medical schools and not to allow any new medical schools! That's been eased since, but shows the stupidity and mistakes of the past few decades, not just politicians, but unions too!

Large employers, including the NHS, and their staff, need to embrace trainee schemes, recruitment of young people, etc., as it's our only hope of solving current problems.

I work in accountancy and it’s experienced staff we’ve struggled to recruit. We take on graduates each year and took on a few extra this year but it’s a few years before they are able to to do the work where we have our shortages at the min, taking on more graduates wouldn’t solve this

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 13/11/2022 09:01

My local M&S food hall shit the one toilet during COVID and never reopened it. It’s been barricaded by metal cages for 2 years, and they won’t reopen them. So I can’t go anymore if DA is with me because he has a bowel condition which means he needs a loo where possible nearby

user1496146479 · 13/11/2022 09:02

Ginseng1 · 13/11/2022 01:47

Our primary school not doing an evening navity /carol service this year citing 'safety reasons' as they didn't have to do it for 2 years it's an easy 'lets not bother' regardless of religion was always a lovely evening for local parents & kids.

Same here!!! My youngest who started school in the pandemic, was so looking forward to it, having watched her siblings do theirs!!

Strictly1 · 13/11/2022 09:02

Spudina · 12/11/2022 23:13

I work with several universities who run clinical trials for patients with cancer. I, as the patients nurse, have to speak to the university’s of a matter of urgency, so that my patients can get life saving chemo. Except I can’t get anyone on the phone and have to wait for an email response as they are all “working from home.” It’s frustrating and puts my patients at risk.

Can I ask you about this? I have a family member who’s been offered a trial but concerned about delays, especially with strikes looming. Are they likely to be delayed?

PaulGallico · 13/11/2022 09:03

@MadOnHer - agree. Twelve months ago my young adult son got a new social worker -In that time she met him on-line once (only for 10mins because he couldn't cope). She's not met him or his family or been to our house. Working on sporadic emails it seems to be ok to make decisions about his future and be satisfied that he is safe.

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