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Rich wives shagging the tennis coach/personal trainer/gardener etc

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Dreamingofsaturdaysinmyyouth · 12/11/2022 17:57

Would you?

I live in a v wealthy area (abroad) i’m not wealthy myself, just average, but often work for families and know some socially through links with my Dd
So many of them have a personal relationship with these men in their lives, whilst the husbands work away (v frequently) and also maybe get up to god knows what.
Do you think the husbands know/mind?
Would you do it? Such a surreal life I imagine

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Igglepiggleslittletoe · 12/11/2022 18:57

I am not rich but do have a gardener and it would be a cold day in hell before I would let his 70 year old shar pei penis near me. I also have a PT and she is not my type at all. Tennis coach again no, too short. The kids old swimming teacher though - might have given him one at some point although I was single then.

Do you have to be rich to do this or can we all join in though?

Summerfun54321 · 12/11/2022 18:59

Did no one else’s parents warn them against dating or marrying men who worked away a lot?

Itisbetter · 12/11/2022 19:03

So your question is really, “Would you have an affair with one of your employees?”

No.

HTH

youlightupmyday · 12/11/2022 19:12

It is an odd life and in relationships there is a currency. In rich wife/ trade she has the power sitch but in her marriage she is lesser. Sexual attraction is a weird beast and we are very much hierarchical.

Blackheath95 · 12/11/2022 19:41

Not in uk. Next door neighbour left her 4 kids to run off with her tennis coach. Now have a couple of kids with him.

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