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To think on £30,000/year I should be able to afford to live on my own in London?

318 replies

kjhgfdfhj · 11/11/2022 20:02

I earn £30,000, which I know isn't high by any means but I think it's decent. But I still can't afford to rent my own place in London. Lots of my colleagues who must earn around the same amount somehow rent flats in London and I don't get how. The only ones I understand are those who live with partners as there's two incomes to pool together for rent and bills.

I really don't see myself ever getting into a relationship, and feel like because I'm single I'll never be able to give myself the kind of home and lifestyle I want. I never really realised before how much being single negatively impacts you financially.

OP posts:
mamacattiva · 11/11/2022 20:04

Flatmate? That’s the only way I could afford to rent when single.

BMW6 · 11/11/2022 20:06

I think you'd struggle to find a room in a house share in London on that income - or anywhere in the South East for that matter.

Overthebow · 11/11/2022 20:07

£30k is very low for London so I don’t think it would be easy.

bravelittletiger · 11/11/2022 20:09

Definitely no way you could afford that or expect to. I used to earn significantly more than that in London and never lived on my own because I couldn't afford to. It sucks but it's true.

VladmirsPoutine · 11/11/2022 20:10

What's that after tax? Unfortunately I think even if you could manage it you'd be eating a tin of beans throughout the week. Flat-sharing is possible without having to go down the relationship route but yes to your point being single is expensive but I can attest to how much better my peace of mind is.

Dappledapples · 11/11/2022 20:10

Your colleagues are probably being supported by their parents.

titchy · 11/11/2022 20:11

House share is your only option really. Unless you're prepared to live somewhere errrr, edgy...

finallydones · 11/11/2022 20:11

The problem is housing costs inflation & wage stagnation.

Clymene · 11/11/2022 20:12

I never could afford rent on my own in London. And I was earning £25k in 1995. Still out of my price range.

FlounderingFruitcake · 11/11/2022 20:13

Unfortunately that is a very low salary for London. Your colleagues are either earning more than you think or being supported by parents. Or both.

LittleOwlorNot · 11/11/2022 20:13

I used to earn that but had to live in New Malden with housemates. I did own my own flat in another city so was a bit of a kicker having to share again in my early 30s! (I rented my flat out)
It's about 1800-2000 a month which isn't a lot left after rent and bills unless you share.

trampoline123 · 11/11/2022 20:15

Your colleagues are either lying or being supported by parents - that's not enough.

Flat sharing is the only way.

Lj8893 · 11/11/2022 20:15

I think lots of people would struggle to live alone for £30k in many places outside of London too 😢

herbygarden · 11/11/2022 20:28

My brother managed it by buying a shared ownership flat, the rent and mortgage together were less than rent on one room in a manky flatshare! Might be worth considering? Though I know interest rates are not on your side right now!

finallydones · 11/11/2022 20:29

It's about 1800-2000 a month which isn't a lot left after rent and bills unless you share.

Which is higher than many mortgages on a house in London. Timing is everything unfortunately!

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 11/11/2022 20:30

I earn more than that in London and couldn’t rent here- 1 bed flat above a shop zone 5 is £1300- that’s pre any bills. A single room is £800. It’s disgusting!

stuntbubbles · 11/11/2022 20:31

On £30k I lived in a house share in South London Z2. Most people I know did. The only people I knew who lived alone earned at least twice that and had TINY studio flats, or were bought flats by their parents.

LBFseBrom · 11/11/2022 20:32

You could probably rent a studio on the outskirts of London.

wheelywheelynice · 11/11/2022 20:33

You know there is such a thing as housing benefit and universal credit?

PhilInt · 11/11/2022 20:33

Although better than renting a one bedroom flat alone, renting a two bed flat with a flatmate still isn't going to be as cheap as renting a one bed with a partner. Unless, you're happy to bunk up with your flatmate in the same bedroom or one of you sleep in the kitchen/living room space.

titchy · 11/11/2022 20:34

wheelywheelynice · 11/11/2022 20:33

You know there is such a thing as housing benefit and universal credit?

£30k is well over the income require to qualify for HB Hmm

Sparklfairy · 11/11/2022 20:36

wheelywheelynice · 11/11/2022 20:33

You know there is such a thing as housing benefit and universal credit?

If you don't have kids and under 35 you only get enough UC hosuing element for a room in q shared house. They won't pay for a flat.

Rumplestrumpet · 11/11/2022 20:38

This thread is so depressing 😭 That's how much we pay a lot of our teachers and nurses. Shocking .

SeasonFinale · 11/11/2022 20:43

wheelywheelynice · 11/11/2022 20:33

You know there is such a thing as housing benefit and universal credit?

for someone earning £30k?!

SocksAndTheCity · 11/11/2022 20:43

I think it depends where in London you mean; it's not all crazy prices but you'll need to go a long way out and not be too picky. I live in a (very nice) one bed in the Square Mile and that would only just cover my rent and council tax.

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