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As an employer, would this bother you?

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PetitP · 08/11/2022 12:44

When asking previous employers for sickness over the last two years employed by them. Employer from 2017-2021 will be 0 days for the last two years. Current employer will be 6 weeks with investigations for potential heart issues (have cardiology letters) - all finished and am now on beta blockers and had no issues since, 2 days with covid, and 3 days with a virus. All genuine. Would this be an issue for you? WIBU for them to not give me the job because of this?

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PetitP · 08/11/2022 20:25

CantFindTheBeat · 08/11/2022 18:45

My company would definitely not provide that information at all.

We would stay 'XYZ worked for us as xyz Role between date and date'.

I mean, are they even allowed to tell them the reason for any absences? Surely that would be a breach of confidentiality, giving out medical info...

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ViscountessBridgerton · 08/11/2022 20:33

I was worried this would be an issue for me after taking large amounts of time off for cancer treatment but new employer didn't even ask for sickness days.

pilates · 08/11/2022 20:46

So was you hospitalised?

PetitP · 08/11/2022 20:49

pilates · 08/11/2022 20:46

So was you hospitalised?

No but was in A&E initially and spent a lot of time in hospital having various different ecgs

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pilates · 08/11/2022 21:00

I am struggling to understand how you would have 5 weeks off with investigations? Glad you are feeling better.

PetitP · 08/11/2022 21:03

pilates · 08/11/2022 21:00

I am struggling to understand how you would have 5 weeks off with investigations? Glad you are feeling better.

Well I haven't told you any of my symptoms so would be hard for you to make a judgement?

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pilates · 08/11/2022 21:11

I thought you said “investigations for potential heart issues”? Not judging, just trying to get a clearer picture.

Askinforabaskin · 08/11/2022 21:41

Sounds like a very invasive request for a reference to be honest.

Your absences don’t sound like anything too concerning, but the 56 days bit does sound a bit off putting, especially if they have a candidate with say only 5 (as long as they aren’t all individual days like a Monday), but it sounds like you have secured the role now. So unless it’s something where your health will be scrutinised like if you need a medical I wouldn’t worry.

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