So starting to think maybe I am in the wrong here but the stubborn bit of me says no I'm not unfair... So I look after my OH kids whilst he's at work (hour away and no signal), his car has just broken so I am running him in and collecting him, an hour each way completely interrupting my day which I have no problem with but it maybe makes me a bit more short tempered which is why I think I am probably being unfair....so this evening I went to collect him as normal, my rule In my house is if I'm out no one goes out, this also applies to my own children, my SD (12) decided to goto youth club without telling either me or her dad were she was going. Her dad has now basically told me I need to mind my own business with regards to the children because I said I was a bit pissed off at fact this had happened.. i did say this during dinner that was probably a bad move but I didn't know when the right time would be and it was 8pm.
I am a SAHM whilst me works to I can care for children (we have a child together) but this makes me feel like a nanny, so I'm allowed to care for them but not have an opinion? We live separately but he is very clear on his opinions of my house, I brought a kitten recently but am having to get rid of because of his views and he regusrly puts my girl down. I maybe was quite forward with my views at the fact she has ignored the rule on my house but surely it's my house my rules? This may well be the final straw and me about to leave but I am thinking maybe I'm being overdramatic...