How many people with savings have had help getting on the property ladder, inherited money or had their university experience funded by parents ? A lot I’d imagine
I think it depends some people are completely oblivious to their lucky circumstances .
At same time many who had to work during university and had no prospect of being funded by parents - such as myself were much more fearful of debt and much more attuned to the need to save money generally - there wasn't a safety net otherwise.
DH was fully funded by his parents through university and post graduate degree didn't have even a summer job till last 6 months of PhD write up time - he was brought up to fear debt but had parents who would step in with money.
At one point we earned the same amount - paid similar for rent and other out goings - I saved a lot he apparently couldn't afford to save anything.
I wonder if this is where we've possible erred with out kids - they think we'll always step and we won't be able to - younger two are better but eldest may have to learn the hard way.
While IL were never in position to help with house deposit and were unaware how much deposits even then were - DH had attitude ( oddly encouraged by his parents) there was no point saving as house prices were going up so much while I just got on with saving month in and out. So I was one who bought savings to marriage and that was all money I'd earned and it was those savings that meant we could buy.