I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant and have a 10 by 15 cm cyst on my left ovary. I work in a busy catering environment which is very physical. The consultant recommended I stop work as they are (obviously) unwilling to remove the cyst whilst I’m pregnant and we need to avoid it rupturing. I informed work and they told me that I need
to put my health first and they completely understand if I wanted to hand in my notice. I told them that I need to inform UC first as I need to
show them medical evidence - we cannot afford to live just on my husband’s income. They then offered me a job staying on the tills so I don’t have to physically exert myself too much. It still involves standing for over 4 hours but I won’t be running around.
My friend is furious for me as they’re avoiding the issue of maternity or sick pay. I’ve told her that as long as I’m entitled to government payment, I’m not going to push it further. It’s a part-time evening job that doesn’t pay that well anyway. I don’t want to stay there forever but it fits well around childcare. I’ve also lost my contract which baffles her as she’s hot on these things. She doesn’t understand how I’m so laid back. I have a very busy 3-year-old with suspected ASD and I’m studying for a degree. I don’t have the energy to take it further if UC will pay me regardless of whether I quit (and it will be roughly the same amount of maternity or sick pay).
Am I being too laid back about this?