I do wonder whether part of the problem for elderly people, when it comes to downsizing, is the sheer enormity of the declutter if they have to do, to go down from a 4-5 bed house to, say, a 2 bed one.
Most of us use all the space we have, and as you get older, you do accumulate more and more stuff, and it is a massive task to sort out a big houseful of furniture and other stuff, to make it fit into a much smaller property. I’m not elderly, but I quail at the thought of the drastic decluttering I’d have to do, if I was downsizing, so it must be much more daunting to someone elderly.
My mum had to downsize from a fairly spacious 3 bed bungalow to a much smaller 2 bed, and she did not manage to get rid of anywhere near the amount of stuff she needed to, in order to fit comfortably into her new house - the living room has two bookcases and a dresser, plus a dining table and chairs, a coffee table, the TV and two easy chairs, and the other rooms are almost as cluttered, plus there is a lot of boxes in the loft.
I can easily understand why elderly people would choose not to have to do that huge decluttering task, and just stay on, using a fraction of the space they have.
I’m not saying this is right or fair, but if we understand why people might be reluctant to move, maybe they can be offered help with whatever is putting them off moving.