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To ask alternatives to Christmas roast dinner

56 replies

elephantmarchingin · 29/10/2022 12:21

I'm not a huge fan of roasts they also tend to make me feel bloated and sick (no idea why!)

Can anyone give me alternatives for Christmas that are still special but not a full roast - or is this just totally weird and unheard of!

Aibu to ask what you have for Christmas dinner that aren't your normal roast!

OP posts:
jackstini · 29/10/2022 13:26

Whole side of salmon, roasted on top of crunchy new potatoes and lots of veg with a fabulous chilled white wine

Then your favorite dessert

jackstini · 29/10/2022 13:27

@TimBoothseyes - do you have a recipe for that cheesecake? Sounds lovely!

Hintofreality · 29/10/2022 13:27

I don’t like east dinners, Christmas Day we have fresh lobster, fries, garlic aioli, salad and crusty bread.

Teeturtle · 29/10/2022 13:29

TheSandgroper · 29/10/2022 13:15

Australians do like a bbq with salad. Or there is a big seafood thing with pavlova to finish.

I was just going to post seafood and pavlova. The first year we lived in Australia we cooked a duck on the BBQ and had it in a traditional roast, but it was too much. So next year I know I got lobster and other seafood and did a platter. Yes follows by a pavlova for dessert.

BigFatLiar · 29/10/2022 13:33

Chocolates to start
Cheese and biscuits with a bottle of wine
More chocolates

ODFOx · 29/10/2022 14:09

Millsbills · 29/10/2022 13:20

Who are you catering for?

As I’d warn against this if you cook for others, fucking with Christmas dinner is a sure fire way to get added to a shit list.

if you’re cooking for yourself a steak might be nice?

Indeed.
Google Catherine Tate Show No turkey OP. It is a great sketch.

Millsbills · 29/10/2022 14:18

ODFOx · 29/10/2022 14:09

Indeed.
Google Catherine Tate Show No turkey OP. It is a great sketch.

We refuse to go to my ILs for Christmas as they have a festive cottage pie, as a roast is ‘too much effort’

They miss out on seeing the kids for the festive period but it’s their own fault!

elephantmarchingin · 29/10/2022 14:39

Millsbills · 29/10/2022 13:20

Who are you catering for?

As I’d warn against this if you cook for others, fucking with Christmas dinner is a sure fire way to get added to a shit list.

if you’re cooking for yourself a steak might be nice?

Haha. Will just be myself DH and 3 year old DS so no worries of causing mayhem.

I don't mind gammon but normally have with new potatoes and salad bits so may have that but swap salad out for something more Christmassy!

OP posts:
elephantmarchingin · 29/10/2022 14:40

BigFatLiar · 29/10/2022 13:33

Chocolates to start
Cheese and biscuits with a bottle of wine
More chocolates

Sounds like my kind of meal

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WhoooohMatron · 29/10/2022 14:40

Beef Wellington or fish? I love a Christmas dinner to be honest but you can do whatever you like. Why not think of a few options and have a vote?

DuringDinnerMints · 29/10/2022 14:52

Last year we just let everyone pick their favourite meal. The kids both wanted chicken wraps and DH and I had some Chinese food from m&s. Everyone happy, hardly any cooking involved. I don't particularly like Turkey so why bother? We spent the morning playing with the kids and eating quality street instead of slaving over a roast dinner.

C8H10N4O2 · 29/10/2022 15:01

elephantmarchingin · 29/10/2022 14:39

Haha. Will just be myself DH and 3 year old DS so no worries of causing mayhem.

I don't mind gammon but normally have with new potatoes and salad bits so may have that but swap salad out for something more Christmassy!

Just bung edible glitter on the potatoes and salad Halloween Grin

Otherwise choose something which you enjoy but don't have very often because its a little more trouble or costly than you would prepare on a frequent basis.

If inviting others, you do need to think about them but its surprising how many people are more than happy to have something different for a change.

faffadoodlewooooo · 29/10/2022 15:02

We're having an Ottolenghi inspired Middle Eastern feast this Xmas. Quite appropriate really

elephantmarchingin · 29/10/2022 15:03

@C8H10N4O2 to be honest DS would eat anything at all with glitter!

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AdaColeman · 29/10/2022 15:07

Have whatever you like, from super indulgent luxury seafood to quick and easy toad in the hole. If you've got children, let them join in choosing the meal, then everyone will be happy.

With avian flu the worst it has been in decades, and many Norfolk turkey and geese farms in difficulty, availability could be limited and prices sky high, so this is a good year to break with tradition and try something different.

LondonQueen · 29/10/2022 15:10

We did curry last year, it was devine, much less prep than a roast and a firm family favourite. Plus who doesn't love an onion bhaji!

Purplepepsi · 29/10/2022 15:12

Christmas pie from Turners Pies, they deliver! With mash and sides! So good and easy and means I'm not in the kitchen all day. Kids always want a Christmas Colin from Marks but I do at least one fancy dessert too!

FourChimneys · 29/10/2022 15:27

We never have a roast - too many vegetarians and vegans here. But our adult DC look back fondly on the time we had a crisis on Christmas Day and we had pizzas out of the freezer once we got sorted out.

maddiemookins16mum · 29/10/2022 15:33

We’re having steak, Dolphin nose potatoes and probably a side salad or/and a tub of ‘luxury’ coldsore.

OrangePumpkinLobelia · 29/10/2022 15:33

If I had my complete choice I would have a massive fresh seafood platter adorned by nothing but lemon and some nice bread with champagne.

Growing up we usually had bbqs (hot country) until my Jewish parents became more observant and we stopped celebrating Christmas when i was about 14.

But a traditional christmas for me is basically bbq, salads, seafood and ice cream.

TimBoothseyes · 29/10/2022 15:34

jackstini · 29/10/2022 13:27

@TimBoothseyes - do you have a recipe for that cheesecake? Sounds lovely!

I got it from here. I use low fat versions of the cream and philly though and I didn't do the decoration as I'm rubbish at that kind of thing

www.janespatisserie.com/2016/12/28/no-bake-limoncello-cheesecake/

ODFOx · 29/10/2022 15:35

Dolphin nose potatoes sound amazing!
(Yes I know it's a typo: it's a great one!)

Sagealicious · 29/10/2022 16:54

We always have prawns with a chilli mango dipping sauce, cold chicken or ham, potato salad, other types of salads, fried rice that my mum makes and pavlova and/or choc ripple cake to finish it off. Might not sound like much but there's always plenty of left overs that lasts a few days.

C8H10N4O2 · 29/10/2022 17:21

elephantmarchingin · 29/10/2022 15:03

@C8H10N4O2 to be honest DS would eat anything at all with glitter!

Then have yours/DH's favourite meal, let DS choose the pud, glitter on everything on his plate.

Not that I've ever used glitter as an incentive on a small child's plate at a grown up family meal you understand...

jackstini · 29/10/2022 18:27

Thank you @TimBoothseyes

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