Name change just in case for this one..
I'll try and keep this as short but with as much info as I can.
AIBU to ask where something is that belongs to my DP?
We both have apple watches and use them daily unless they run out of battery and we forget to charge them sometimes they sit on the side for a week before I remember to stick them on charge again. My partner is the same and recently wears his sporadically when he remembers to charge it. It's more for communication that fitness purposes.
I was putting my watch on charge the other day and thought I would do my partners too but I couldn't find it in his dresser. (I'm in it frequently putting clothes/underwear away) so I see it in there usually.
Later on that evening I asked where it was as he wasn't wearing it. He got all weird and said he didn't know. He HATES losing things so I thought it was odd that he wasn't worrying. I asked why he wasn't worried and he said oh because I think I know where it is. I said oh where and he said don't worry it's my watch not yours.
I thought it was weird and left it. It's been a week and there's no watch the be seen and I've asked again today if he's found it and he said he knows where it is but wouldn't tell me where. Then proceeded to call me controlling and possessive.
He does what he wants when he wants I barely even ask where he's going half the time, he's free to do what he wants and I'm far from controlling and neither is he. The only reason I kept asking was because I couldn't understand why he wouldn't just say oh yeah it's at so and so. He's gone mad today saying he doesn't have to tell me where it is and not to talk to him.
It's honestly bizarre. I don't actually care if he's lost it but we tell eachother everything so it's strange that he wouldn't mention that. If he lost it I know he would be moaning to me about it.
AIBU? I wouldn't usually care so much but it just seems like something really petty to keep from me and I don't understand. I know it's not mine to worry about but it's not even about the watch now it's about the fact he's keeping something from me.
Also I'm pregnant so could be overthinking.