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Food in the office being eaten by other people

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asblindasabat · 24/10/2022 16:48

A colleague of mine recently brought in a small packet of bite-size caramel shortbreads and left them sitting there in the office.

We sometimes do bring in snacks and leave them there to share about.

I ate one of the shortbreads but I didn’t finish them so obviously someone else has as there were none left.

She seemed to imply that it was me who finished them and I didn’t and she wasn’t impressed that someone would do such a thing.

AIBU to think that if you don’t want others to eat your biscuits/snacks etc don’t just leave them sitting about in the office for all to have access to?

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BMW6 · 24/10/2022 17:43

Why did she leave them there? Very strange.

LynetteScavo · 24/10/2022 18:03

I'd be fucking furious she thought I ate them if I didn't- I'd bring in two packets and tell her one is for her to stuff her face on, and suggests she puts them somewhere safe, the other is for the person/people who enjoyed the packet she left lying around. I'd make it very clear it wasn't me who at them. I'd then hold it against her for a long time and accuse her of eating my food.

But then I don't like my colleagues very much Grin

Merlott · 24/10/2022 18:56

That's really weird behaviour.

Some people are just batshit

asblindasabat · 24/10/2022 20:18

LynetteScavo · 24/10/2022 18:03

I'd be fucking furious she thought I ate them if I didn't- I'd bring in two packets and tell her one is for her to stuff her face on, and suggests she puts them somewhere safe, the other is for the person/people who enjoyed the packet she left lying around. I'd make it very clear it wasn't me who at them. I'd then hold it against her for a long time and accuse her of eating my food.

But then I don't like my colleagues very much Grin

Lol I like your thinking!!

OP posts:
RoseJam · 24/10/2022 20:22

What were these bitesized caramel shortbreads called?

asblindasabat · 24/10/2022 20:24

RoseJam · 24/10/2022 20:22

What were these bitesized caramel shortbreads called?

They were Tesco’s own make. I prefer to call them ‘mini caramel squares’ !

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Begoniasforever · 24/10/2022 20:25

RoseJam · 24/10/2022 20:22

What were these bitesized caramel shortbreads called?

Kevin

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 24/10/2022 20:28

It became a joke in my old place. We all used to eat everything. Fortunately we all found it amusing.

Edpecislly the time we ate some chocolate that was earmarked for a management presentation. The person presenting it found it hilarious.

RoseJam · 24/10/2022 20:28

She sounds bonkers.

Maybe suggest politely what she would like to do about finding the culprit and how she would know exactly who it was who took her caramel squares.

I thought an office rule was in a communal area = open to anyone, on someone's desk/in the office fridge = hands off mate, that's mine

RoseJam · 24/10/2022 20:30

I'd be also tempted to be a bit childish and place a single square on her desk for a couple of days and then remark that maybe the said culprit is paying her back in instalments.

lannistunut · 24/10/2022 20:35

LoveMyCats1 · 24/10/2022 17:04

We all leave stuff on top of the filling cabinets to share so yanbu. If it's on your desk, it's yours.

Same in our office.

ThinWomansBrain · 24/10/2022 20:36

tesco mini caramel bites? Hardly a box of Godiva chocolates or nice florentines.

You someone did her a favour.

VladmirsPoutine · 24/10/2022 20:39

Is this a reverse?

In anycase as a general rule just keep and eat your own things. I don't like sharing with my colleagues apart from the occasional one off. wrapped sweet.

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