My husband has an awful temper.He can't control himself and has regularly embarrassed himself and me with his shouting in company and in public.The only thing that he has strong feelings about, apart from himself, is money. He promised when we separated three years ago , in our own separation agreement that he would pay half the big tickets items.He hasn't. He pays e50/week/child and they are with me 95% of the time.I'm in Ireland so medical,dental and orthodontic are all private. Education fees have also not been paid. He is adamant that he is entitled to half the house, in which I live with my children but my lawyer suggests that as he has such little interest in the kids, and rarely has them over and as they are with me for all school holidays and as he has become recently self employed, the only way to get him to contribute financially is through increased equity for me.We own it jointly. He is going to go absolutley nuts at this and I'm genuinely afraid of him when he gets like that. He has said that he cant afford a divorce.I'm not sure what that means as most of us can't, but it's a necessary financial evil in order to move on. He said he has no money but is about to go on his fourth holiday of the year. In your experience, is divorcing an angry, money hungry, uselss father and husband an absolute nightmare.What should I expect?