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to feel like everything is going to shit?

22 replies

classypasty · 24/10/2022 11:37

Just that really. Cost of living, climate change, rise of extreme right wing politics, bloody Putin, China, Trump possibly back in in 2024. Feels like the world is going to hell in a handcart right now. And just read this article on a UN report which apparently came out earlier this year, which I had seen neither hide nor hair of in the media, warning we are headed for "total societal collapse": bylinetimes.com/2022/05/26/un-warns-of-total-societal-collapse-due-to-breaching-of-planetary-boundaries/

Meanwhile our politicians are too busy playing out their petty little ego driven squabbles to actually do anything.

I don't want to be all doom and gloom, I want to feel positive, but I don't at the moment. I am worried about my 2 DC and their future. Anyone else?

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Cafenero35 · 24/10/2022 11:44

Yeah it’s dogshit. They don’t even have that little bit at the end of the news now to cheer you up, there’s no room for good news! I was watching the news last week and it was war, interest rates, redundancy, food shortages, strikes and then the ‘and finallay’ bit which I was waiting for was about how there’s gonna be a shortage of turkeys 🦃 this Christmas. I was thinking ‘aww you’re taking the piss now” I might be skint, at war, redundant or on strike but at least give me some turkey ffs.

JamSandle · 24/10/2022 11:47

I'm feeling very worried and scared. I avoid the news but it seems like most people are feeling an impending sense of dread.

DamnUserName21 · 24/10/2022 11:50

I think you need to stop watching the news.
I am aware things are crap but don't tend to worry because I cannot control any of it.
I focus on the positives and try to live in the present: healthy DC, food and warmth, decent job.

DamnUserName21 · 24/10/2022 11:51

I will add that the news tends almost always be negative because 'good' news doesn't sell or draw viewers.

Thereisnolight · 24/10/2022 11:54

Too many people in this world. Building too many houses, polluting and eradicating every green space. The more of us there are, the more we loathe each other.

classypasty · 24/10/2022 11:55

DamnUserName21 · 24/10/2022 11:50

I think you need to stop watching the news.
I am aware things are crap but don't tend to worry because I cannot control any of it.
I focus on the positives and try to live in the present: healthy DC, food and warmth, decent job.

It's my job, so it's pretty much impossible to avoid the news!

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JamSandle · 24/10/2022 11:57

I dont want the news but I still absorb it from people.

DamnUserName21 · 24/10/2022 12:00

classypasty · 24/10/2022 11:55

It's my job, so it's pretty much impossible to avoid the news!

That's shit! Grin
Take a leaf--you cannot control any of it so why worry?! I do suggest to my DC not to have kids of their own though...
Also, bear in mind, things looked crap during two world wars (for Brits, anyhow!) we got through it!

classypasty · 24/10/2022 12:00

I don't really feel like "avoid the news" is much of a solution, anyway.

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SleeplessInEngland · 24/10/2022 12:01

Public services are noticably falling apart.

And no, 'avoiding the news' isn't a solution.

BigWoollyJumpers · 24/10/2022 12:01

DamnUserName21 · 24/10/2022 11:51

I will add that the news tends almost always be negative because 'good' news doesn't sell or draw viewers.

Absolutely. And the UK media in particular seems to be the worst offender.

Last week, for example, I noticed a definite agenda with the BBC. Bit on Sunderland, one of their highlights on UK areas. Lunchtime news, everything was great. Everyone they interviewed was upbeat. People opening businesses, good standard of living, people in jobs, lots of investment in the area, people hopeful about the future. Evening news, everyone starving, food banks, life gone to shit. One assumes the narrative follows the viewing figures. If you only watched the evening news, you are presented with a much more negative view, than if you had watched the lunchtime news, or both, as I did.

yerdaindicatesonbends · 24/10/2022 12:03

The way I look at it is that absolutely almost anything could happen in the next 10 years. Some great, some terrible, and I think the scales may swing back and forth for a bit before we see any kind of steady normality return.

Removing the environmental factor (which is literally the one thing we should all be moving toward sorting and ‘coming together’ on) the amount of tension within the political and financial side of things is quite stark.

And I don’t watch the news for anyone saying that usual line, but I am aware of history.

yerdaindicatesonbends · 24/10/2022 12:05

And I feel like the ‘we can’t control it so just relax’ is the exact opposite of how we should be feeling. I suspect local community will become increasingly important in the coming decade.

classypasty · 24/10/2022 12:06

We CAN control it (or some of it, certainly climate change and politics). People don't want to mobilise in order to do so.

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Thereisnolight · 24/10/2022 12:09

yerdaindicatesonbends · 24/10/2022 12:05

And I feel like the ‘we can’t control it so just relax’ is the exact opposite of how we should be feeling. I suspect local community will become increasingly important in the coming decade.

I agree.
Just be nice to the people around you. Expect the same in return. If everyone did this things would settle everywhere.

I’ve always been highly sceptical of “movements” and “activism” no matter how apparently well-intended. Narcissists at the top, almost always.

Puppyseahorse · 24/10/2022 12:09

You’re not wrong. But, most of human history has been a mess and a miseryfest. ‘Normality’ or ‘steadiness’ isn’t really a thing- other than for a brief period in the 90s after the end of the Cold War- generally, we lurch from crisis to crisis and people have felt the way we do today all throughout history.

Which isn’t to say that this isn’t awful. Just that it’s not abnormal.

classypasty · 24/10/2022 12:12

Climate change is the one that scares me the most.

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MarshaBradyo · 24/10/2022 12:15

It’s in flux, but on the flip side you hear of advancements all the time, stuff people in the past would love to have had

It’s not all gloom, not sure what to say other than try to protect your mh if it’s suffering

SimonaRazowska · 24/10/2022 12:15

We did not start the fire

it was always burning, since the world’s been turning

there have always been wars, diseases, the end is nigh…

it’s all just a little bit of history repeating

classypasty · 24/10/2022 12:16

SimonaRazowska · 24/10/2022 12:15

We did not start the fire

it was always burning, since the world’s been turning

there have always been wars, diseases, the end is nigh…

it’s all just a little bit of history repeating

We started the climate change fire!

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RainStalksMyWashing · 24/10/2022 12:21

classypasty · 24/10/2022 11:37

Just that really. Cost of living, climate change, rise of extreme right wing politics, bloody Putin, China, Trump possibly back in in 2024. Feels like the world is going to hell in a handcart right now. And just read this article on a UN report which apparently came out earlier this year, which I had seen neither hide nor hair of in the media, warning we are headed for "total societal collapse": bylinetimes.com/2022/05/26/un-warns-of-total-societal-collapse-due-to-breaching-of-planetary-boundaries/

Meanwhile our politicians are too busy playing out their petty little ego driven squabbles to actually do anything.

I don't want to be all doom and gloom, I want to feel positive, but I don't at the moment. I am worried about my 2 DC and their future. Anyone else?

Feel like this too. Also feels like constant divisiveness and a stream of narrative that is simply untrue - Brexit, covid etc.

yerdaindicatesonbends · 24/10/2022 12:21

classypasty · 24/10/2022 12:16

We started the climate change fire!

The industrial revolution started in the 1700s which I would argue was the beginning of where we are now so not quite. I also don’t believe in it being down to personal responsibility, that will make the smallest dent. Changes need to be made from a government level. We have a lot of the solutions, they literally exist which is why I’m not entirely defeated by it.

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