To ask what’s one person you’d never let back into your life who’s not an ex?

[PistachioGreenn]

A friendship I had since primary, secondary until about 23. She treated me like shit, ruled our friendship group.

Would do something with just 3 people in the group and then if you did the same she would call you up and shout at you for leaving her out.

The day I walked away from that group I felt so much better.

My father. I threw him out if my house aged 20 after years of mental and emotional manipulation. He died when I was 50. He made one attempt to contact me. Sent a congrats on your baby girl card but it was a boy card with boy crossed out and the word girl written above it.

Apparently he complained to others how awful a daughter I was to him 🙄

Ex friend. She was so controlling and vile. Ruled the friendship group which split when we were 26/27. Some of us had been friends since we were 4 years old. The controlling one is still close to the one friend who chose to stick by her.
She has tried over the years to meet up with me. I will smile and say hello if I bump into her. I would never allow her back into my life though.

My sister

Sister.

I had a 4/5 yr period of NC and foolishly allowed her back into my life when our mum was diagnosed with cancer.

She's the most selfish entitled person I've ever known and was no support to mum, dad, me or my brother for the whole 2 years we had mum.

Never again will I make that mistake.

My sister

Friend of a friend he’s a twisted individual freaks me out and I don’t know why the friend trusts him when he’s done so many things to him. He’s a thief a liar and a really messed up man.

The person that gave birth to me, she's the most vile most evil person I've ever known.

There are 3 friendships I have had over the years - from school to now - that I ended and would never reconcile. I have got very good at spotting a potential “friend” who is manipulative, spiteful, and puts others down because it makes them feel better about themselves.
Tough lessons learnt, and horrible and sad experiences to go through, but it taught me to raise my standards. Now I have a small number of female friends who I trust completely and love dearly.