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To think cinemas will soon become obsolete?

189 replies

Keyansier · 22/10/2022 19:34

Reasons why:

  1. Home media systems are getting bigger and better as each year passes.
  2. Society is getting more inconsiderate as each year passes and people think nothing of yakking all the way through a film or playing on their phone/kids playing on their ipads.
  3. Films are available through home streaming 1 or 2 months after a cinema release these days, not like before when it would take over a year until a video/DVD release.
  4. The cost, which isn't worth points 2 and 3.
  5. The after effects of covid and lockdown and films being released on home media only - people realising they don't actually miss the cinema at all.
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Ostryga · 22/10/2022 19:49

I’ve just seen Don't Worry Darling and the cinema was empty! On a Saturday!

It might be because it is a shit film, but still.

Keyansier · 22/10/2022 19:49

Birthdaycake25 · 22/10/2022 19:47

It's far too expensive. I only pay if there is something I really want to see and can't wait longer for it to come out on TV. But that is very rare, perhaps once a year. I think most films nowadays are rubbish! It's always superheroes or animations for kids. When was the last decent film which you thought that is going to be a classic watched over and over again?

I think superhero/Marvel films, and big action films like Top Gun are the only ones that are going to make significant money back from the cinema going forward. I don't like either.

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Holidayexpert · 22/10/2022 19:49

I hope not, but I fear you’re probably right! We go on meercats to Cineworld and bring our own snacks, and I think it’s ok prices.
I love our little independent cinema as well, and it shoes more quirky films.
No snacks allowed though 😮

Rewis · 22/10/2022 19:50

Also last time I went to a movie I was very pleasantly surprised to find out 9pm viewing on Saturday in Vue was £4.95

ScreamingMeMe · 22/10/2022 19:51

JohnsShirt · 22/10/2022 19:40

I hope not, I go at least once a week.
I love Cinema, seeing films on a big screen just can't be compared to home at all.
I've been 32 times so far this year.

I don't think I've been once in at least 5 years 😆

donttellmehesalive · 22/10/2022 19:51

One thing I think they often get wrong is being firm about inconsiderate behaviour. I am old enough to remember an usher in every screening to make people be quiet. Then they popped in regularly. Then they came in if there was a problem. Now they try to sort a problem, get told to fuck off, pretend it's sorted and leave.

QueSyrahSyrah · 22/10/2022 19:51

Ostryga · 22/10/2022 19:49

I’ve just seen Don't Worry Darling and the cinema was empty! On a Saturday!

It might be because it is a shit film, but still.

We saw it today too. 20 people or so in our small screen, but it has been out for a month 🤷🏻‍♀️

Wishyfishy · 22/10/2022 19:51

Keyansier · 22/10/2022 19:39

You don't pay for radio every time you listen to it though. (Well you used to have to physically pay for a radio, but not any more).

But there are still substantial costs to radio - paying equipment, radio presenters, paying to play music, all extra staff - and they can only be met if enough people listen to warrant adverts and sponsors etc? .. In a world with Spotify, social media etc who would have thought that would still be viable?

I rarely go to the cinema but it’s still very much a thing for other people. I didn’t think the point about home systems is really valid. I can drink alcohol at home far cheaper, but I still enjoy going to the pub .. etc
I never take my DC to the cinema but I think a fair amount of families go regularly.

Holidayexpert · 22/10/2022 19:55

The noisy twats put me off though, and I tend to go when it’s least likely to be busy.
Couple of scrotes were spoiling a film I went to see a few months ago.
They were escorted out, but sadly this is rare!

valadon68 · 22/10/2022 19:55

I hope not! We go every week, despite not being rolling in cash. I adore the cinema and feeling like you're connecting with strangers because you're all immersed in the film together. One person snickers, which flicks a switch and makes everyone laugh together, then everyone's conscious of finding the same thing funny. I think these sharing moments are just what we need in these times of polarised politics, not to be overdramatic!

We went to see the Virginie Efira film about a Parisian terrorist attack, in a small screen where you could hear everyone's small vocal reactions, intakes of breath etc., and people were naturally streaming with tears. I think it's good that people have opportunities to mourn collectively, to see each other mourn, and to see that people do care and do turn out to see these films about extraordinary events, especially if you've been personally touched by them.

lightand · 22/10/2022 19:55

Not a lot going on around where I live. Cinema is one of the attractions.

Keyansier · 22/10/2022 19:57

But there are still substantial costs to radio - paying equipment, radio presenters, paying to play music, all extra staff - and they can only be met if enough people listen to warrant adverts and sponsors etc? .. In a world with Spotify, social media etc who would have thought that would still be viable?

That is very true @Wishyfishy

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SeemingOKToday · 22/10/2022 19:58

We go probably once a year.

I like it for big disaster films or similar. DH and I saw the last Jurrasic Park film at the cinema and you can't really recreate that at home!

BTW - does anyone else call it the Pictures? DH takes the mick out of me and says I sound like a little old lady 😂 but it was always the pictures, not the cinema, when I was growing up. It still comes automatically to me. I'm only 36 so not that elderly!

Kanaloa · 22/10/2022 19:59

donttellmehesalive · 22/10/2022 19:51

One thing I think they often get wrong is being firm about inconsiderate behaviour. I am old enough to remember an usher in every screening to make people be quiet. Then they popped in regularly. Then they came in if there was a problem. Now they try to sort a problem, get told to fuck off, pretend it's sorted and leave.

I used to work in a cinema and to be honest I didn’t do much when people were kicking off. You’re on crap shifts, crap wages etc, and the managers won’t back you up. So if anyone complained I would never bother going into a screen and telling people to be quiet, I’d just tell a manager who would offer the complainer a refund but wouldn’t actually dk anything. It’s difficult because as a customer I would definitely complain and demand a refund if my cinema visit was ruined by inconsiderate people, but as an employee it’s just not worth putting yourself up for dog’s abuse.

Kanaloa · 22/10/2022 20:00

SeemingOKToday · 22/10/2022 19:58

We go probably once a year.

I like it for big disaster films or similar. DH and I saw the last Jurrasic Park film at the cinema and you can't really recreate that at home!

BTW - does anyone else call it the Pictures? DH takes the mick out of me and says I sound like a little old lady 😂 but it was always the pictures, not the cinema, when I was growing up. It still comes automatically to me. I'm only 36 so not that elderly!

I’m younger than you and it’s still the pictures 😂 are you Scottish? I’ve always thought maybe it’s a Scottish thing because now I’m in England and people don’t seem to call it the pictures.

donttellmehesalive · 22/10/2022 20:04

"I used to work in a cinema and to be honest I didn’t do much when people were kicking off. You’re on crap shifts, crap wages etc, and the managers won’t back you up. So if anyone complained I would never bother going into a screen and telling people to be quiet, I’d just tell a manager who would offer the complainer a refund but wouldn’t actually dk anything. It’s difficult because as a customer I would definitely complain and demand a refund if my cinema visit was ruined by inconsiderate people, but as an employee it’s just not worth putting yourself up for dog’s abuse."

I completely agree and don't blame you at all.

But antisocial behaviour and an unwillingness to respond to it definitely affects my decision to avoid the cinema now.

Awful that these people are emboldened by the knowledge that no one will do anything.

Our city centre cinemas are worse for this. The out of town ones that require you to drive there are better.

donttellmehesalive · 22/10/2022 20:06

I suppose, like many jobs, abuse from unreasonable customers is something we're all supposed to endure now.

Keyansier · 22/10/2022 20:06

I've got used to saying 'cinema' now but I still sometimes use 'the pictures'. Smile

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donttellmehesalive · 22/10/2022 20:07

I say pictures too. Films is ok. Movies is ridiculous.

Redrry · 22/10/2022 20:07

BasilParsley · 22/10/2022 19:45

Last time I went to the cinema was in 1993 to watch Schindler's list. I found the seats uncomfortable, the sound a bit too loud and muffled for my ears (and I couldn't adjust it) yet I managed to get most of the plot which reduced me to tears. I was still crying when my ex-h and I walked up the road to where we had parked the car. I vowed then - never again would I visit a cinema! And I haven't!

That's just plain odd. You do realise you can see films that aren't traumatic?

Kanaloa · 22/10/2022 20:08

donttellmehesalive · 22/10/2022 20:04

"I used to work in a cinema and to be honest I didn’t do much when people were kicking off. You’re on crap shifts, crap wages etc, and the managers won’t back you up. So if anyone complained I would never bother going into a screen and telling people to be quiet, I’d just tell a manager who would offer the complainer a refund but wouldn’t actually dk anything. It’s difficult because as a customer I would definitely complain and demand a refund if my cinema visit was ruined by inconsiderate people, but as an employee it’s just not worth putting yourself up for dog’s abuse."

I completely agree and don't blame you at all.

But antisocial behaviour and an unwillingness to respond to it definitely affects my decision to avoid the cinema now.

Awful that these people are emboldened by the knowledge that no one will do anything.

Our city centre cinemas are worse for this. The out of town ones that require you to drive there are better.

I know, it’s depressing. It used to seriously vex me, but the managers are too scared or just cba. To me it’s the blatant disrespect of other customers. Sounds OTT but as a manager or even a customer I’d rather have the screen turned off and see the people removed forcibly by security than just have to sit having my experience spoiled by selfish people. If it was dealt with properly then it wouldn’t keep happening, but that seems to be increasingly the case for all anti social behaviour nowadays.

LoveMyCats1 · 22/10/2022 20:08

Our local cinemas is vue and it's only about £4.99 a ticket and you get 30% discount on food next door if you go cinema so it's always busy.

surreygirl1987 · 22/10/2022 20:09

You could be right... I used to go to the cinema loads, but actually, now that I think of it, I'm not sure I've been since pre-covid.

donttellmehesalive · 22/10/2022 20:09

BasilParsley · 22/10/2022 19:45

Last time I went to the cinema was in 1993 to watch Schindler's list. I found the seats uncomfortable, the sound a bit too loud and muffled for my ears (and I couldn't adjust it) yet I managed to get most of the plot which reduced me to tears. I was still crying when my ex-h and I walked up the road to where we had parked the car. I vowed then - never again would I visit a cinema! And I haven't!

It is quite unusual to take one movie at one cinema, 30 years ago, and decide that all other cinema experiences will be the same.

VinoDino · 22/10/2022 20:09

NumptiesIncorporated · 22/10/2022 19:36

I don't think you are being unreasonable, but I really hope it's not the case. I love a trip to the cinema.

Agree with this. Agree mostly with people don't know how to behave properly in a cinema. There doesn't appear to be any cinema etiquette anymore. The last 5 films I've seen someone is yapping, the glare of a phone going off constantly. Popcorn aside people can't seem to sit through a film without constant munching and noisily stuffing their faces. I'm so put off by going now.

During Joker I had a guy beside me constantly checking his emails on his phone until I intervened. Then when I chose a daytime film (I work shifts) I had two old dears yapping all the way through Spencer, which to be fair I was hating anyway. Maybe I'm just getting more intolerant to people in general 😂

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