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Is it "unreasonable" to be this tired at 7 months pregnant? What could you get done / not get done at 7 months?

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QS90 · 21/10/2022 22:25

Am posting here as am interested in the pol result, as figures speak truer than comments (although I am very interested in these too!).

I am 7 months pregnant, with a part time office job Mondays and Tuesdays and a gorgeous two year old I look after the rest of the time. I don't want to complain as I love my life, but atm I am just SO KNACKERED and am beginning to wonder if it's normal and what other women managed to do at this stage in pregnancy?? I'm lucky (and touch wood!) I haven't had any particular pregnancy illnesses, except borderline anaemic (taking iron pills) with an enormous bump measuring 5 weeks ahead (GTT was fine).

Today was a pretty average day. Other than the usual feeding / changing of toddler, I did some painting with him and bathed him afterwards. I did three loads of laundry (just wash machine and tumble dry, nothing strenuous), cleared kitchen, went for a big shop and put it away, cleared kitchen, made dinner, cleaned out rabbits, hoovered through downstairs, cleared up painty messes. But am just so tired I had to stop for a cry midafternoon (away from toddler obviously), which I know is ridiculous. It feels like every, single time I have to move it's such a massive effort I don't know whether I'll manage it. I just feel so guilty and shitty about all the endless stuff that isn't getting done at hom, as well as toddler having more screen time than I would like, when I feel he deserves a "proper" main carer with all the energy and enthusiasm in the world to give him. I just can't seem to muster any more energy for doing a single other thing and am wondering if it's time to worry - will check with midwife too when I see her next week but interested in other women's experiences.

So please let me know from your experience;

YABU - You're doing a normal amount of stuff and shouldn't be feeling so tired (the tiredness is unusual)

YANBU - It's normal to feel this tired later in pregnancy, there's nothing to worry about (the tiredness is normal)

OP posts:
Icannoteven · 23/10/2022 11:28

Every pregnancy is different. With my first I felt so absolutely knackered that at seven and a half months I just walked out of work and never went back. 2nd pregnancy, worked until the day before I gave birth - I had never felt so energetic before!

Listen to your body. It I'll tell you what you need. You sound like you are judging yourself. The most important thing you are doing right now is growing that baby! Your toddler will be fine with more cuddles/naps/screen time and biscuits together.

takealettermsjones · 23/10/2022 12:01

I'm 2mths pregnant with a 2 yr old and I'm exhausted! I'm keeping everything crossed that it will get better in the 2nd trimester... My sickness lasted all the way through last time and severe heartburn started up around 16 weeks, so I'm not holding my breath 😂

It sounds like you're doing a lot though! Have you got a partner to help? If so let them hoover! And this is precisely what screens are for 😉 it's not forever.

SlagathaChristie · 23/10/2022 12:04

Your tiredness and massive bump sounds a lot like me when I was pregnant. I had undiagnosed gestational diabetes. Have you been tested? After my test I basically cut out starch and carbs and felt a lot more energetic.

Plantmoretrees86 · 23/10/2022 12:07

I felt awful at 7 months. Suddenly developed horrific pelvic girdle pain and everything became a struggle. Continued working full time as a teacher but collapsed as soon as I got home each night and my DP did everything around the house. Could only manage walks up to 15 minutes etc. DD is still a baby but I'd like another in the future, but do wonder how I'd cope with a toddler/child in the mix as well... Honestly you sound like you're doing great!

Bizzyone · 23/10/2022 12:08

100% relate to this and so relieved Im not alone! Am 8 mths pregnant now and the last few weeks Ive felt absolutely knackered, out of breath, bump feels huge and unwieldy and back pain is really affecting me doing things for long periods!

Feel like I must just be rubbish at pregnancy/3rd trimester as everyone just wants to tell me how much they LOVED it and how will I cope in few wks etc etc... which obvs isnt helpful 🙈😅

Am counting down days til I finish work (full time, active job) just in the hope of getting few daytime naps in!

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