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AIBU?

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To think exDP should cough up?

29 replies

FrostyFlamingo · 20/10/2022 17:57

I'm a single mum of 3, I work full time and yet I'm struggling financially so bad. I know a lot of people are in the same boat!
I work in a school and my anxiety was so bad today I have to leave a classroom to have a little cry.
DC's DF earns more than I do and doesn't pay much, when he does he moans about it! DC stay with him every other weekend and a couple of times in the week he will see them and he has a good relationship with them but he refuses to pay full child maintenance. AIBU to think a dad should help out financially for their children? Instead I get called a shit mum and the kids deserve better. Just can't cope anymore Sad

OP posts:
Herejustforthisone · 20/10/2022 20:14

Fuck him. He’s a cunt. File your claim. Now. He needs to pay for his children.

Fucking hate these men.

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 20/10/2022 20:19

Doesn't sound like he has them in the week over night, just that he sees them

Let the customer sort it out and if he gets aggressive phone

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 20/10/2022 20:19

The police

ForfuckssakeEXHstopbeingatwat · 20/10/2022 22:28

@Hont1986 I think that's really unhelpful. A man with the attitude this one does is not going to want 50/50 and any suggestion of it would be an obvious bullying tactic that would come to nothing if the op can show through messages etc that his sudden desire to actually parent coincided with her CMS claim. Your message perpetuates the exact situation the op is in; fear of rocking an unpleasant man's boat to get what her children absolutely should have.

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