Hi all, so I went away with work with some work colleagues for 3nights. I had hadan argument with DH before I left because he went on about not knowing I was leaving on a Sunday and not Monday- the day the conference started. I couldn't travel on Monday as it was a 3hr journey and aiming for a 9am start. I also had told him I may come back on Thursday if the roads were too busy. It happened that the Wednesday schedule wasn't that impressive and we decided to leave Wednesday morning. I got home just after 11am. I got home and DH had parked his car in the middle of the driveway. I parked off the road. I went and unlocked the door to find it had a latch inside. I rang the doorbell and there was no response. I waited for 5mins and called his phone. He answered and told me he was coming down. 5mins later he had not come to open the door. I called him again and he told me he will be 10mins upon which he told me he was not at home. I asked him the door has a latch and he sounded like he had forgotten to take the latch off and used the back door to go and meet a male friend. I went round the property to find the garden door was locked but one could open. I walked back to the front and called him again. He answered and said he was at the back, of which i told him i didn't see him there. He then arrived and was sweaty and in a panic state. He was very erratic in his conversations and wanted to kiss me. I refused to be kissed. I also noted one of the hanged pictures ( me and him) had been taken off the wall. He said that had fallen off, maybe one of the kids may have pushed it( kids were at school). I asked him if he was OK and he started shouting, blaming me for accusing him for cheating. Our relationship and communication is not great. I accept that. He started picking on that too. He refuses he had someone inside whom he took out via the back door. Am I being unreasonable? Sorry it's long.