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AIBU to think 'sensible' is being used as an insult

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worredimboring · 16/10/2022 09:40

I was in the pub last night and a friends Mum who was really pissed said I reminded her of her own mum, being disapproving and looking my nose down at people as I was so sensible. I felt really hurt by this and have no idea where this has come from. AIBU to say anything to my friend about it?

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Crabbyboot · 16/10/2022 10:33

I think she probably thinks she's a "cool mum/person" because she likes to get drunk, and she wants to make herself look cooler than her son's friends. Don't worry about it or say anything she sounds insecure.

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CheezePleeze · 16/10/2022 10:35

You both sound insecure tbh but she sounds nasty.

However, you should've pulled her up at the time, it's too late now.

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Theblacksheepandme · 16/10/2022 11:55

CheezePleeze · 16/10/2022 10:35

You both sound insecure tbh but she sounds nasty.

However, you should've pulled her up at the time, it's too late now.

I think pulling any drunk person up at the time is definitely not the right time. I would wait until they're sober to rationally discuss things.

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