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AIBU?

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to be pissed off DH just made this comment...

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Annoyed2night · 26/01/2008 21:18

He made a comment about some glamour model being well fit and I have no idea who he is on about (keely hazel i think her name was).

I said to him how would he feel if DD aged 5 atm grew up to be a glamour model and he said "theres no way any DD of mine is doing that kind of work" so I replied, well someones DD IS and WILL do that work and he replied " well someones got to do it and as long as its not my DD i don't care" . Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr I am so frickin annoyed right now.

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NoIHaventChangedMyName · 26/01/2008 21:21

Just let him get on with it. The fact that he vocalise's it means nothing really. All blokes think it. Some are just more tactful than others!!

Asgoodas · 26/01/2008 21:22

Do his knuckles drag on the floor when he walks?

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Annoyed2night · 26/01/2008 21:22

What got me though is the woman he was on about is all of 20 .

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scottishmummy · 26/01/2008 21:26

was it this stunna???

Elasticwoman · 26/01/2008 21:26

"woman he is on about is all of 20". How old would you like her to be?

He has proved himself a hypocrite and i think you won that argument so let it go.

nancy75 · 26/01/2008 21:39

she lives round the corner to me - tell him he wants to see her without the make up and the air brushing! as for her being someones dd,from what i know the family are proud wtf!!!

ScoobyDoo · 26/01/2008 21:41

Is she the page 3 girl? my friends dp goes on about a keely!

Shaniece · 26/01/2008 21:45

Tell him to grow up ffs a grown man drooling over a 20 yo glamour model.

You were right to question how he would react to your DD doing that kind of work. I can't believe he said it's ok for someone elses DD to do glamour modelling but not his DD (typical male comment) .

LadyOfTheCauliFlowers · 26/01/2008 21:47

I asked DH and he has no clue who I am on about.
He says sometimes he sees a pic of a 'bird' and he might think 'she's attractive' but he also said he knows a lot of airbrushing etc is involved.

VictorianSqualor · 26/01/2008 21:51

I like the people dp says are 'pretty' they are always quite normal

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Annoyed2Night · 26/01/2008 22:01

I would hate my DD to grow up to be a glamour model - i guess most men don't mind ogling other peoples DD's but the thought of their own is unimaginable. Men are bloody hypocrites.

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scottishmummy · 26/01/2008 22:08

keeley may well be intelligent, witty,keen social conscience but she is less likely to be taken seriously because she gets her baps out is a glamour model

Wotz · 26/01/2008 22:08

Annoyed2night I would be annoyed.
Its one thing for all of us (men and women) to have a fantasy about some 20 something fit film star or whatever, but quite another to tell their partner and expect them to go "good on ya"!

Pan · 26/01/2008 22:09

That IS my DD!!

Wotz · 26/01/2008 22:09

Pan she has a nice smile

Pan · 26/01/2008 22:10

thanks. Gets it from me, you know.

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Annoyed2Night · 26/01/2008 22:11

Thanks for your comments. iam off to bed but feel like shit. It gets me that men like ogling young women but then they are so posessive when it comes to their own DDs . i wouldnt wish for anyones DD to be a topless star or whatever.

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Wotz · 26/01/2008 22:11

baps are nice too

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Annoyed2Night · 26/01/2008 22:13

So Pan i guess u are joking about her being your DD but if she was your dd you wouldnt mind her getting her baps out for millions of pervs would you???

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Wotz · 26/01/2008 22:14

sorry Annoyed2night
don't let it bother you, I'm sure he didn't know his mouth was connected to his thoughts at the time.

Wotz · 26/01/2008 22:17

At 20 I am sure she is old enough to know what she is doing,
Its not her fault. Don't blame the person your DH has made a comment on.

I am sorry you are upset but you should be upset with your DH not the model. It is him that has upset you is it not?

Pan · 26/01/2008 22:20

Well...annoyed..if I was t oreceive a royalty for it as a recompense, then no, probably not.

Am a bit surprised at teh naivity of the postings, I guess. Yes, it IS pretty insensitive to openly oggle another woman. No question. But is this the first time it has happened? The dynamics around such disrespect probably go far deeper than just your posted annoyances at it.

But yes generally not nice, I agree totally.

Nighbynight · 26/01/2008 22:20

OP YANBU!

at Pan

Pan · 26/01/2008 22:25

NBN - that's the she inherired!!

NiftyNanny · 27/01/2008 11:58

I actually protested at the Playboy store yesterday as there are so many people with this attitude -
"it's ok, they have a choice to take their clothes off. Wouldn't want it for my daughter, but who cares?"

The thing is, that whole industry encourages young women to think it's good to be sexually available, compliant and to present an unreal version of femininity. I have a real bee in my bonnet at the mo. Playboy are marketing pencil cases and so on at pre teens.... it WILL be your daughter if this attitude carries on.

Well done for challenging your hubby. make him think about what message it's sending out...

www.binthebunny.com

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