The irony of a sexless marriage thread

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Wouldn't it be wonderful if you could ask when courting "will you want to be shagging in your 40s, and how often"?

So many threads on here with women sad their husbands no longer want sex, and then me and many of my girlfriends feeling we'd be delighted to not bother ever again. I read the sexless marriage threads and am green with envy.

Maybe we could set up a swap shop? A horny husband for a not bothered one?

I can only say that if you'd asked me, when in my 20s, I'd say I absolutely do still imagine having lots of sex in my 30s, 40s, 50s etc but unfortunately a medical condition has fked up the inner workings and stolen my libido. Thankfully my DH is not an arsehole so understands and we make the best of it.

I would very much love a tinder situation for odd jobs tho! Great suggestion! Haha

I heard a great quote once from somewhere. sex is 10% of a relationship when its there but 90% if its absent. i.e. its not there it completely sours the relationship for one person.