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Angler blocking footpath, I know I was unreasonable, but would this annoy you/what would you have done??

115 replies

Patienceisntvirtuous · 11/10/2022 20:07

I realise this might need a diagram! I was out running with my dog today. There's a footpath off the main road which leads to a dam. People fish on it. The footpath has a fence either side of it right up until the dam, give or take about 4 feet of land comprising of grass and another footpath (between the end of the dam and the fence). An angler was sitting at the dam, with his fishing rod to his left propped up on some apparatus completely blocking the four feet of land which I was to run across, right next to the fence. No way around it without going for a swim. It was poised about a foot and a half high.

I stepped over it and my dog jumped over it. Dog is huge, didn't touch the rod just cleared it. I didn't take a flying leap, I stepped over it carefully. Then continued my run-but he shouted after me that I shouldn't step over it, he'd have moved it (he hadn't said anything like this before I stepped over it). I shouted back that it was okay, and he responded that had I broken a section of his rod it would have cost me £250.

It's then when I was unreasonable, I shouted back that I wasn't waiting for him to move the rod, I've as much right to the path as him.

And he was blocking it which isn't great. Further up from the footpath would have been fine, no fence there and grassy areas surrounding so I could have just avoided.

I imagine he'll spend half his day repeatedly moving his rod, sitting in the spot he was right opposite where the footpath emerges, It's a regularly used-route.

Would you have hung about while he moved it (again he never said 'hang on I'll move my rod')?
I had no reason to think he would, and I wouldn't have asked either because I didn't know it was possible without a lot of faffing about. It wouldn't have been an especially quick thing to do, a long fishing rod with various elements and garments attached to it.

Anyway no harm done but I perhaps shouldn't have argued back with him.

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GabriellaMontez · 11/10/2022 20:15

Hmm I wonder if he'd have said this to a man? No. Not a chance.

PauliesWalnuts · 11/10/2022 20:18

On my canal cycle commute there isn’t an angler who doesn’t think the canal should be just for anglers. Try riding down on a bike - I couldn’t believe the huffing and puffing going on. One weekend I rode 30 miles in the other direction up to Yorkshire and didn’t realise there was an angling competition going on. By the time I got to Hebden Bridge I felt like the most hated woman alive.

tulips27 · 11/10/2022 20:19

I see the same thing cycling. Men who feel entitled to block the path or , worse, deliberately obstruct you.

HikingforScenery · 11/10/2022 20:19

Yanbu

Patienceisntvirtuous · 11/10/2022 20:21

GabriellaMontez · 11/10/2022 20:15

Hmm I wonder if he'd have said this to a man? No. Not a chance.

Good point!

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jetadore · 11/10/2022 20:22

Well you both could probably have resolved it in a more amicable way but he started it by inconsiderately blocking the way so YANBU.

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:23

He pays to be there.

Patienceisntvirtuous · 11/10/2022 20:25

True, he'll have paid for the fishing licence. I wonder if there are any terms and conditions about blocking access?
That sounds so annoying about on canals!

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catandcoffee · 11/10/2022 20:26

I think you were very polite in your response OP.

Dickhead may have been my reply .

Cigarettesaftersex1 · 11/10/2022 20:26

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:23

He pays to be there.

So, he doesn't get to block the path just because he pays to be there

catandcoffee · 11/10/2022 20:27

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:23

He pays to be there.

What blocking a path ?

Patienceisntvirtuous · 11/10/2022 20:27

catandcoffee · 11/10/2022 20:26

I think you were very polite in your response OP.

Dickhead may have been my reply .

😂

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Musicalmistress · 11/10/2022 20:28

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:23

He pays to be there.

He pays for the rights to fish, not to block the path. He was unreasonable.

Vulpine · 11/10/2022 20:29

Maybe he fishes to escape homelife and doesn't like women, not great whatever

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:35

He said he would have moved his tackle. Very rude, and risky, to step over probably a £1,000 piece of kit.

Untitledsquatboulder · 11/10/2022 20:36

I'm sure he'd have moved the rod if you'd asked him. Unless you are the only person to use the path all day I would think he'd be expecting to.

The number if people who are just enraged that other people dare exist in "their" space is depressing.

SirChenjins · 11/10/2022 20:39

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:35

He said he would have moved his tackle. Very rude, and risky, to step over probably a £1,000 piece of kit.

In which case he should look after it better by sitting right next to it and moving it immediately he saw someone approaching, and not leave it blocking a path. He’s fishing in the wrong place if he’s that concerned about his rod.

bloodywhitecat · 11/10/2022 20:40

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:35

He said he would have moved his tackle. Very rude, and risky, to step over probably a £1,000 piece of kit.

Then surely he should set it up in a way/pick a spot where he doesn't impede access to a public footpath?

PauliesWalnuts · 11/10/2022 20:40

The problem is that they can see you coming from a couple of hundred meters away in my case yet don’t make a move to lift the rod until you are right up to them and have to stop and ask. Of course he’s going to he to move the rod - there is nowhere else for me to go.

Kanaloa · 11/10/2022 20:40

Vulpine · 11/10/2022 20:29

Maybe he fishes to escape homelife and doesn't like women, not great whatever

Okay? Maybe op runs to escape home life and doesn’t like men.

It was weird behaviour. Surely when you’re setting up any sort of activity you look around yourself and consider if you’ll inconvenience others. Like if you go for a picnic, you don’t set up right in the middle of the path. You find a bit of grass out of the way. But I probably wouldn’t have shouted back because I wouldn’t start a confrontation with a man in a quiet area. Sounds melodramatic but sometimes men murder people so I wouldn’t get into any sort of argument.

ancientgran · 11/10/2022 20:40

GabriellaMontez · 11/10/2022 20:15

Hmm I wonder if he'd have said this to a man? No. Not a chance.

Well obviously not because men are never rude or aggressive to each other, they'd probably have a hug and dance round it.

Kanaloa · 11/10/2022 20:41

ancientgran · 11/10/2022 20:40

Well obviously not because men are never rude or aggressive to each other, they'd probably have a hug and dance round it.

Well no but these type of men are unlikely to get rude with somebody who they know might clock them round the head. They tend to get rude and aggro with people they feel they can intimidate.

onethirtyfive · 11/10/2022 20:43

I have had EXACTLY the same thing happen to me walking round a local lake. Road fully cross the footpath.

I stepped over it and the dog jumped over it and the man told me off for doing it! Don't block the path if you don't expect people to navigate round your crap. Idiot.

YANBU.

onethirtyfive · 11/10/2022 20:44

rod fully across the footpath

onethirtyfive · 11/10/2022 20:45

VeniVidiWeeWee · 11/10/2022 20:35

He said he would have moved his tackle. Very rude, and risky, to step over probably a £1,000 piece of kit.

Yes, very risky of him to leave it lying around. What a fool he was.