So my dog goes to daycare 1 day a week - the walker does really long walks with him that I can’t manage (for health reasons) and he gets the chance to socialise with loads of other dogs too - it’s really boosted his confidence because he is a very anxious puppy (he is nearly 7 months old).
DD’s (6) birthday is coming up at the end of the year and I’m thinking to use that day to send the dog to daycare for a couple of reasons… firstly, my family are absolutely obsessed with the dog and there has been times where my daughter has expressed that she has felt left out and ignored - and obviously I don’t want her feeling like this on her special day that SHOULD be all about her. Secondly, my dog is still very anxious around people and there will be quite a large crowd of people and I think this will be too overwhelming for him (he had a bad experience with his breeder - I think he was abused - and he wees and poos out of fear around humans that aren’t me and my daughter or family members that visit pretty much daily).
He is crate trained but my family will keep trying to take him out or make comments the whole time because they don’t agree with crate training (I don’t want to debate that on here - it worked for us - it’s his safe space where he is very happy to go off to). And I can’t put him in another part of the house because he gets major separation anxiety if he knows I’m in the house but he can’t see me (something we are working on).
A few members of my family won’t probably like it as they pretty much only come to visit the dog and make it very obvious to me and DD, but WIBU to send him off for the day to have a run around instead?
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RelationshipAdvice93 · 09/10/2022 23:39
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