We were all struck down by COVID for almost a week now, DH and I were both quite ill in the first couple of days. We both have full time jobs but I felt slightly less awful than DH so I took care of our sick toddler for the whole week (which was physically and emotionally very draining), while I was also feeling unwell and fatigue myself.
I was hoping to get a break in the weekend and he would help out more. DH got up earlier than me this morning but again just left me to do the childcare. I got up and before even brushing my teeth I had to go in and get DS who's snotty and miserable, I was running around changing his bedsheet etc and DH was just sat there drinking a cup of tea!! I said it'd be nice if he could help out and at least said hello to DS and check if he's ok?? He actually had the gut to say to me "I've already done a lot this morning" by that he means taking in the supermarket delivery and putting things in the fridge!! He even said he sorts out the bills and house stuff as if he's a superhero for even doing that!! He clearly didn't appreciate how hard it was to do round the clock childcare for a sick child for the whole week. On top of that all the laundry, cooking and cleaning around the house!!
Feeling massively underappreciated and taking for granted like a worthless housemaid. AIBU or does anyone else ever feel like that?? Are men really just idiots like this or just my DH??