I was minding my own business tidying up, my boyfriends friend was on loud speaker on the phone. We had uploaded a photo that day of us, I was wearing high waisted jeans with a crop top which didn’t show any of my lower stomach, just a little bit of skin between the top and pants.
My fiancés friend was telling him how he had noticed improvements of my partner since he’d started the gym, then he randomly said “why the fuck is your lass wearing that top? It’s stupid as fuck, be different if us men went out in crop tops”.. I was so shocked, my fiancé got angry and said “eh why are you saying that about my fiancé?” And ended the call. BARING IN MIND THIS FRIEND AND MY FIANCÉ HAVE PHOTOS OF THEM AT THE GYM TOPLESS??? So he walks around topless yet he slated me for it?
I entered the room and I was confused, like why has he randomly just slagged me off for what I was wearing? Baring in mind he brought the discussion up saying my boyfriend looked good on photo then made the comment about me.
My fiancé fell out with his friend for a few weeks (I told him on the day not to be silly and fall out even though I was mad). He missed hanging out with him so became friends with him again.
My fiancés friend claimed he didn’t mean anything bad by the comment, but I don’t appreciate getting judged for having the slightest bit of skin on show.
Should I forgive his friend and forget about it? I don’t mind my partner being friends with him obviously, but I can’t but feel a little bit crap.
I was a little confused as I’m sure he wouldn’t mind seeing a model in a crop top (I’m a petite girl but 4 months postpartum). Is it because I’m a mum? Or is it because he’s a bloody pig that judges women for how they dress?