My DH works full time Monday to Friday 9-5 or sometimes 8-6 and is the main bread winner so pays for majority of 'stuff'.
I work 3 days a week from home and contribute 2/3 of my wage to the household. I do all of the cooking (including making breakfast/lunch), mostly do the food shop alone, walk the dogs 5-6 times a week (DH does 1-2 times). I do all of the laundry and cleaning. I do all of the planning, e.g I'm 6 months pregnant with my first child so am planning nursery/what we need for baby etc.
We keep having big arguments about this. I feel I prioritise our home and he does not. And whenever we argue he basically says he works hard and that makes me feel guilty, like I should be grateful that he works hard and earns good money.
He says he will just pay for dog walkers/cleaners etc which I don't like the idea of, so I feel I'm hypocritical in that sense, I just wish there was a bit more teamwork and am worried about how he will manage when baby comes.
So AIBU to think this division of labour is unfair or am I just complaining too much????