I have been with my partner 5 years. He asked me to marry him after a couple of months and I said yes. He is my everything but almost 5 years on still nothing. He knows he has me where he wants me and I feel he uses that to his advantage. Only feel brave enough to bring the marriage subject up when I have had a couple of drinks. At which point I get shut down and told I ambarasing and I should go to bed. It is always this way when he does not want to discuss what something. Then it up my fault and I apologise? He is much smarter than me so I believe him. He is a lazy lover and wakes me if he fancies something, but he doesn’t usually give anything back. We don’t kiss apart from on the cheek or forehead. I am being manipulated as I have just got used to it now is this normal.?