Ex boyfriend/baby daddy

Merryoldgoat · 05/10/2022 19:39

No hun. Ur totes rite 2 b pissed.

User38899953 · 05/10/2022 19:39

Sorry for your loss.

What would I do? Block him and not give him another thought.

Dotcheck · 05/10/2022 19:40

Dear lord, just leave him in the dust

Whatacarryonthisis · 05/10/2022 19:40

I’d block the baby daddy and raise the incredibly low bar you have for a partner a hell of a lot higher

RancidOldHag · 05/10/2022 19:42

Well, the way you describe him leaves the impression that he's an utter shit, so good riddance

Who else do you have in your life to turn to for support following the miscarriage?

ComebackQueen · 05/10/2022 19:42

How devastating, not only to have a miscarriage but for the man responsible to accuse YOU of lying about it.

Block him.

Red flag number one should have been when he was sleeping with you whilst having some form of relationship with another woman.

Res flag number two, doubting the miscarriage.

Keep him blocked forever Hun.

so very sorry for your loss.

Stickworm · 05/10/2022 19:43

um he sounds like an utter turd that I would never give another thought tbh.

sorry for your loss 🌹

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notallsunshineandrainbows · 05/10/2022 19:45

Stickworm · 05/10/2022 19:43

um he sounds like an utter turd that I would never give another thought tbh.

sorry for your loss 🌹

Replying to a random comment here
He also from the very beginning was very vocal about wanting another woman involved in the relationship
I've previously identified as a lesbian however wasnt okay with sleeping with anyone else whilst with him
He set up a dating profile as me and met a girl and added us all into a group chat and would film me in bed and send it to her in the end he blocked her on both our phones because she was more interested in me
She saw the red flags tho and she's happy with a girlfriend now

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CaptainMyCaptain · 05/10/2022 19:47

User38899953 · 05/10/2022 19:39

Sorry for your loss.

What would I do? Block him and not give him another thought.

This. Don't have anything more to do with him.

Sunnyqueen · 05/10/2022 19:48

God sounds like a right mess 😳 just block him and in future set some higher standards for yourself.

WeeOrcadian · 05/10/2022 19:48

He's a massive, walking, red flag

Do yourself a favour - block and move on. He'll bring nothing but heartache

BluesDad · 05/10/2022 19:48

If you were my daughter he would be nailed to a tree. A father’s advice if you want it… get rid permanently!

Beezknees · 05/10/2022 19:50

Why are you wasting your time with such a loser?

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notallsunshineandrainbows · 05/10/2022 19:52

notallsunshineandrainbows · 05/10/2022 19:37

I misscarried my then boyfriend's baby in august and only found out the day we broke up and he blocked me
He unblocked me four days later and I told him but he didn't say anything
He popped back up and we arranged a date I said that if we had sex we were gonna use protection because I couldn't deal with having another miscarriage
He told me he didn't believe me and made me send him photos of it he then said that the baby was someone else's and then blocked me because he's seeing someone else and doesn't want to ruin things with her this is after he spoke to me sexually
Would you be annoyed at this and what would you do?

This was him after he made me send him pictures of my misscariage

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rageapplied · 05/10/2022 19:54

You need to block him and stop engaging with him.

I'm sorry.

You should seek support from other people, not him

SavoirFlair · 05/10/2022 19:56

He has shown you who he is.

what more do you need ? @notallsunshineandrainbows

LIZS · 05/10/2022 19:56

Why are you still in contact? He is nasty, coercive and abusive. Block and move on. Maybe look for counselling to help you detach.

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notallsunshineandrainbows · 05/10/2022 19:57

notallsunshineandrainbows · 05/10/2022 19:37

I misscarried my then boyfriend's baby in august and only found out the day we broke up and he blocked me
He unblocked me four days later and I told him but he didn't say anything
He popped back up and we arranged a date I said that if we had sex we were gonna use protection because I couldn't deal with having another miscarriage
He told me he didn't believe me and made me send him photos of it he then said that the baby was someone else's and then blocked me because he's seeing someone else and doesn't want to ruin things with her this is after he spoke to me sexually
Would you be annoyed at this and what would you do?

Just to clarify he is blocked blocked blocked it took everything in me not to go to his house and show his parents what he is

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Kindofcrunchy · 05/10/2022 19:59

Why do people have such low standards

OldTinHat · 05/10/2022 20:01

Gather up what's left of your dignity, hold your head up and block and DO NOT look back.

Anytimeiseeit · 05/10/2022 20:04

Firstly I’m very sorry for your loss.
Secondly Op you told him about the miscarriage, he said nothing but blocked you for 4 days then you were going to have sex with him again?? Seriously, you need to value yourself a lot more.

Sillystripytail · 05/10/2022 20:04

I don't know you and I know you're better than this. Just block him and move on. Please FGS, raise your standards and find someone decent.

CaptainMyCaptain · 05/10/2022 20:11

Kindofcrunchy · 05/10/2022 19:59

Why do people have such low standards

There are a lot of reasons. Yours is not a helpful, supportive post.

minou123 · 05/10/2022 20:15

Is he the only man where you live?
Does he have a golden penis?

If not, block him.

He is not worth your time or energy. Do not waste another second of your life dealing with him..

Noteverybodylives · 05/10/2022 20:19

Stop responding to him!

He’s a dick and he obviously doesn’t like you.

Stop making yourself look desperate and just move on.