I’m on maternity leave and things are very tight now I’ve dropped to statutory pay. My good friend on my birthday came out with me for drinks and a meal so I feel I have to do the same for her.
A surprise meal has been arranged by her best friend and I’m also supposed to go out drinking with her on her actual birthday. This is a few days apart. I can’t choose one I can’t afford to do either.
I’ve had to pay out for things for my baby and it’s left me with nothing. Im struggling with my credit card and i really can’t afford to put anymore on so I’m feeling sick with guilt about not going but also if I do go I’m worried about the financial pressure I’ll be putting on myself.
I was considering saying I’m unwell. AIBU?
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alwayscake · 04/10/2022 07:52
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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LadyKenya ·
04/10/2022 08:37
alwayscake · 04/10/2022 08:28
I’m going to just be honest. Thanks everyone. Times are so tough :(
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