Am I being unreasonable for asking my fiance to be more present with the children. We currently have two children DD1 (2.5Yrs) and DD2 (10mths), when DD1 was born he was very present and invested, had a great connection to her. Since my pregnancy with DD2 that has wavered massively and I find myself doing 80% of everything for the children and housework. I am a SAHM so don't mind doing the majority of housework but even when he is home he doesn't attempt to interact with the children so I can actually complete a job and as soon as I do start a job he is saying to DD2 'where's mummy' in an attempt to get me back as when she cries she wants boob. I have expressed how I feel and what I would like from him but it seems to have fallen of deaf ears. We're meant to be getting marries soon and I never have an opportunity longer than 10 minutes maybe three times a week to be alone which I use to shower (before everyone piles into the bathroom with me) so I have no time to plan the wedding either.