I am posting on here for input as I know AIBU gains a fair amount of conversation/advice…I don’t think for one second I’m being unreasonable but I know the ‘2nd wives club will’ 🤣. Oh to not expect two parents to financially support their child. Why wouldn’t they? The entire UK child support system is set up by men for men. It is also set up to fulfil legislative nonsense and not ‘burden’ the system, NOT provide for the living little beings in it that the legislative principle that the “Welfare of the Child” under the Child Support Act 1991 should be at the centre of ALL decisions.
The system itself has been utterly inadequate, not replied to variation requests/diversion of income requests, has ignored complaints. Blatantly not done the job, us as tax payers pay them for.
it’s soul crushing enough to have an NRP over 90% fathers to be so deceitful and not child centred to hide income and purposefully not pay child maintenance. In my case it’s a Ltd Company Director who’s set up their finances in a way the woefully inadequate CMS can’t calculate a ‘fair input’. To have a government system that not only supports this but facilitates it,actually takes the soul crushing to another level. It permeates every bit of your life, your well-being, your ability to patent effectively, by not allowing financial freedom to offer the same opportunities and memories and life experiences you could if you were not being financially screwed and controlled. It robs you and your children of the very basic human rights, to live freely of abuse and control.
With that in mind. I’ve just submitted my evidence to the first tier tribunal, for diverted income, unearned income and asking for the welfare of the children principle to be taken into consideration. My two big questions at this stage are;
1, It appears there is some clause here that the inadequate disgrace of a system could up the payments and my tribunal hearing will not go ahead- is this the case?- I’m fully committed to taking this to tribunal stage… so what if this happens? Do I instantly go for Mandatory Reconsideration again? What’s the process? I’ve just realised today this could happen, after submitting all my documents. It would be soul destroying if they came back and said, yes, we’ve upped the payments, so that’s it, tribunal isn’t going ahead… could this happen?😩.
2.Has anyone been successful in their tribunal for variation, unearned income and actually getting this amended? I’ve searched and researched and I find very little information on this of successful outcomes.
Please give me a good news story that these horrors that think it’s ok to neglect their children… because it is neglect…are not getting away with it 🙏