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Aibu to be annoyed at my colleague

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Legobla123 · 30/09/2022 12:48

For reference I work in a children's home for children with special needs.
Recently I overheard a colleague say they were "going to hit a fucking kid in a minute if they carry on" I presume one of the children had tried to hit or scratch them. Another colleague was present and said their name loudly as if to say don't say that.
I reported this as a safeguarding issue to senior management and the other colleague has denied hearing it which is completely not true!
Which is making feel like I acted a bit hastily by reporting them for what they said but I'd be very angry if I heard someone speak about or around my child like that.
Abiu to be annoyed at my colleagues for denying they heard anything or do I need to respect the fact that they don't want to get involved. I just feel so angry.

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RatherBeRiding · 30/09/2022 12:51

Maybe your colleague heard the tone of voice but not the actual words - or maybe didn't hear the words well enough to be 100% sure of what they heard and for that reason isn't prepared to stick their neck out.

SparklyBlackKitten · 05/05/2023 09:10

And now.. it reflects bad on YOU op.

I have 2 neurotypical kids that I feel like @@@@#&@@ sometimes
I can't even imagine a whole classroom with special needs kids
If she yelled it ; she shouldn't have said it but if it was just a vent. Well. I would understand

Obviamente Not in front of the parents 🤐

SparklyBlackKitten · 05/05/2023 09:11

F*k me I resurrected a zombie. Sorry

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