An old friend who I've not seen in a long time as she'd moved abroad for a while , but I used to see her daily. We were meant to meet a few months back, but a couple of days before she said she had COVID symptoms and so didn't want to risk it. I never heard from her again with regard to rearranging.
Anyway then we sent occasional messages etc. But that was it.
She had a job where she did nights and seemed to be constantly at work so seemed hard to meet up.
Then went for a good few months without speaking. I got back in touch and it turned out she'd got a new job and now had much more free time.
She said she'd be up for meeting and we arranged a date a couple of weeks away (yesterday) Eventually I asked if we were ok to do a Skype or equivalent as she lives quite far and I couldn't really afford the train plus a meal etc. So we said we'd skype this time and then postpone the meeting till after payday.
I asked what time for the Skype and she said anytime was great.
I got in touch at about 7:30pm and asked if then was good. She's still not read the msg and it was yesterday, whereas normally she replies asap and is online a lot.
She told me she was free every evening.
I think she's got cold feet, I can't figure out why. I did wonder if it were the case for our last meeting given that she never suggested a new date.
I'm not going running after her, if she doesn't want to then I just won't bother.
I feel a bit hurt and rejected, it's tough when you try with friends and people just aren't that interested. Does it sound like that? Maybe there's a good reason but why keep going online and not even reading my message.