I have just moved abroad with my husband, we have rented an Airbnb flat for 4 months while we get settled etc.
The issue is that the downstairs neighbour is playing loud music daily. It's so loud that it fills our entire flat and we can feel it through the floor. We can't hear any other noise from them like talking/TV so I don't think the soundproofing is that bad, they are just playing the music so loud. I can feel the music vibrating under my feet as I type this. Last night they were also drilling at 11.30pm which again we can hear and feel.
My DH is of the 'ignore it' mindset as he hates any kind of confrontation/fuss but I am struggling and it is really affecting me, especially while I am trying to navigate the mental headspace needed when taking a big leap and moving to a new country. It's at different times of day, every single day so I'm starting to feel on edge and dread being here.
Obviously we expect noise when city living (we are in America), we have lived in flats in cities before so are well aware of what to expect. But this is really starting to affect me as it's so loud and fully fills our living space. We are out and about as much as possible but are also having to spend a lot of time indoors to sort out life admin/work, and into the evenings when we want to relax indoors we just can't.
By what we have seen of the Airbnb host he seems to own a lot of properties and we know of at least one other in this building (it's one building turned into 4 flats)
Would I BU to message the host and ask if he is the landlord of below flat and mention the music? DH is making me feel like we don't have the right to complain as we're just Airbnb guests but I'm at my wits end, we paid a lot for this Airbnb and have 3 months+ left until we leave.